lil_lamb is offline lil_lamb Post #21  August 12,2009, 1:09am
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shrek99352 wrote :
To seek counseling?
i was thinking more along the lines of seeking resources... because part of your quandary is a need for options for things like housing and medical care of any kind.
 
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I would also add a recommendation to start going to the gym daily.

That releases the feel-good endorphins after you work out, you get in shape, you get out of your place, it starts becoming part of your routine, it's healthy for you... all well worth doing. Plus it helps against depression.
 
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Well, I am going to add a twist now. Her friend apparently has her cell phone, and decided to give me the 1, 2 punch. I finally just said look, I have no problems giving her time and space, but my ex is the one who wanted me back here, so that being said, I am just going to leave her alone as much as I possibly can so she can figure out that I do actually care about her as a friend and as someone who does truly love her very much.

I am doing good though, no anxiety for the first time in 20 years, I am already starting to feel better about the situation, and as bad as this sounds, if she wants nothing to do with me anymore, then that is her choice because I have other things to do in life besides sit here and wait for her to decide weather we're friends or anything more than that.

On a side note, I have started walking more often. And talking to some friends that are mutual to get some prospective. The 3 days apart did not work very well at all so it's going to take a lot longer than I thought but that is ok because I have nothing to lose at this point!
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