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eHA_Admin_Lori is offline eHA_Admin_Lori — Advice Official Moderator Post #1  August 3,2009, 4:18pm
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I think that my own best relationship skill is making my SO feel very loved and very special. I try very hard to let them know that I am their #1 fan and that I'm always there for them and that I care...by listening to them, by doing little things (random notes/emails, fixing their favorite dinner or taking them to their favorite restaurant, when they've had a rough day, etc).

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Mr_Right is offline Mr_Right Post #2  August 3,2009, 6:09pm
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Clearly, mine is kissing.

The ability to make a woman go weak in the knees through a kiss is not to be underestimated.
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CJF is offline CJF Post #3  August 3,2009, 6:14pm
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I think mine is the ability to give a man his space. I am not a clinger. I don't think everything has to be about "us".

I am also very understanding and give great massages.

I can also bake a mean cheescake
 
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To be frank, wild CENSORED!
 
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j0hn8andy is offline j0hn8andy Post #5  August 3,2009, 6:59pm
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I can usually see the best in people. Sometimes people are amazed at what I can find to admire in them.

And I'm a firm believer in positive thinking. I try not to let people waste too much time feeling sorry for themselves.

Then there's laughter. Don't get me started, I could go on and on!
 
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jayjay is offline jayjay Post #6  August 3,2009, 7:23pm
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I think the first is my sense of humor. I can always make my partners laugh....even if they're pissed about something it won't be long before I have them laughing.

Another thing is I'm very even keeled. It pretty much doesn't matter what she throws at me....I'll be able to handle is in a pretty calm way.
 
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Mr_Right wrote :
Clearly, mine is kissing.

The ability to make a woman go weak in the knees through a kiss is not to be underestimated.
Amen and amen!
 
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I think I'm really good at taking care of my SO. I like doing nice things for him and doing the little things that he may not think to do for himself.
 
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yoga_gal is offline yoga_gal Post #9  August 3,2009, 8:59pm
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I am extremely loyal in my relationships.

I see the best in everyone but especially those I love.

I am very honest (but in a good way)

I don't fight just to fight or to prove my point. I prefer to work together and compromise or come up with the best solution for both of us in the relationship.

I love to make my partner feel special and I love to give surprises and compliments (they are always real ones).

I had a friend die when we were in our twenties so I tend to take advantage of opportunities to try something new and to say I love you!

(I know this said one best relationship skill - I broke the rules)
 
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IcecreamMoon is offline IcecreamMoon Post #10  August 3,2009, 11:15pm
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In one word: PATIENCE!!!

I guess the fact that I had to work really hard and very patiently to develop this really important skill in myself over a period of time (over 10 years now) is what makes it most valuable and 'best' in my eyes.

It's usually the things, qualities and people we have to work hardest to achieve and keep in our lives, that represent most value to us, as individuals, even though they have no direct quantitative or qualitative value assigned to them in the marketplace of Dating and Relationships.
 
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