After person hurt me, should I continue to date them?


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suzyqlls is offline suzyqlls Post #31  September 18,2009, 12:36pm
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Please Girl look at what your doing to yourself. This guy is only gonna get worse as the years go. You have a great education, work, and financially secure. What does he bring to the table, nothing... Relationships are based on truth, love and loyalty. It seems you made a mistake with this one. Please move on and find someone worthy of you. You seem to have a big heart. I think that he knows this and is counting on it.
Ask yourself this
1. Is he registared for school yet?
2. Who does he think will be paying for his education?
3. Why hasn't he already gone to college before now?
I understand that he was in the military but they usually help these guys get an education even when they are out of the military. Sounds like he doesn't want to get on with his life but let you take care of him to me.
Please have more respect for yourself than this. If one of my daughters came to me with this problem. I would tell them to move on now while they have the chance. You haven't married him yet I hope. So take this as a lesson learned and learn from the mistake. Find someone who has the same education background and have a good life with a great guy. Not the one your with!!!
I hope that you do what you know in your heart of hearts you should. Because you already know you should move on. Take care girl and always listen to that little voice inside that talks to you. We all have this voice now if we just listened to it.
 
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Kick him to the curb and hope the Mack truck doesn't miss.
 
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