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MoneyHoney is offline MoneyHoney Post #1  July 13,2009, 12:32pm
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You have recently had a break-up with someone, and you see that they are now posting a profile on line. Wouldn't you love to rewrite it and tell the TRUTH?? What would you write vs. what they have posted? On the same note, what would the ex rewrite on your profile?
 
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Honestly? I would leave it alone.

No revenge, no vindictiveness. Doing either would surely make me feel worse.
 
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I had this thought JUST TODAY -- it was more like "wouldn't it be great to have a PLAYER registry??" But I hadn't sorted out all the details.

I was nice, though & cropped myself out of a photo that I thought was FAR nicer than the lame new one he put up & suggested he use it. He hasn't. since his ostensible excuse for our breakup was that he decided he couldn't be with someone who had kids (although he said he could up front), I suggested he also change that setting.
 
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j0hn8andy wrote :
Honestly? I would leave it alone.

No revenge, no vindictiveness. Doing either would surely make me feel worse.

i know youre right but it's still fun just to think it! i actually rather not know if he still has his profile online, i dont check for stuff like that b/c i know i'll feel worse.
 
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On his profile I would write that he is a cheap tipper, that his car is usually littered with newspapers, wrappers, and mail, and that he buys chintzy toilet paper.

I feel better already!
 
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oostitch wrote :
i know youre right but it's still fun just to think it! i actually rather not know if he still has his profile online, i dont check for stuff like that b/c i know i'll feel worse.

I do have a girlfriend that blew up the guy's car once!
It made her feel better.
 
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You do know the best revenge is living well, don't you?
 
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and you're dating this car blower upper lady? ... well I guess you can't exactly break up with her now can you! LOL

I LOVE the idea of a player registry! or a creep/perve registry. God I wish I had known what a creep my ex was. ugh. he was also a player and a perve and a creep all in one.
 
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That is one thing I never understood how things could just get so bad that you absolutely hate the person after you break up. I am still friends with one of my ex's and I still very much hope the best for her, things just werent meant to be.

Is it abnormal to still want friendships?

I can obviously see if it was a bad breakup.
 
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Mr_Right wrote :
You do know the best revenge is living well, don't you?
well said. although i've learned lately that it's not about revenge or anything of the sort. it's about just letting him/her go. as long as you want revenge, you're not moving on
 
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