confusion?in a relationship what does it mean?


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bonarj25 is offline bonarj25 Post #1  July 11,2009, 8:18am
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right this very moment if you ask me i want to be happy with my boyfriend ,i want him to be my husband but sometimes when im getting too mad for any reason when i dont feel talking to phone with him my mind keep telling me that "you dont love him anymore"but i want our relationship to be strong...in anything in anykind of situation..please help..
 
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that's normal.
 
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dietpepsi wrote :
that's normal.
I disagree.

While there may be times when you don't feel like talking to him, like when you are angry with him and are trying to cool down, thoughts of not loving him shouldn't come into the equation at all. It sounds to me like you are having doubts about your relationship if this idea enters your mind at these times. I mean, I get angry with people in my life from time to time, but the thought of me not loving them anymore as a result never crosses my mind.
 
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I have told this to friends many times after men have said they're "confused" about a relationship: Confused Men Svck. I believe this applies equally to women.

If you don't KNOW what you want, and if that isn't 100% to be with your significant other... if you feel "confused" and use that as an excuse not to call... then you are just not that into him.

Do both of yourselves a favor. Break it off (and not just by disappearing on him). Spend some time figuring out what you DO want in a relationship. Learn to recognize when you are getting that and when you are not.
 
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waltercl is offline waltercl Post #5  July 12,2009, 12:11am
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The OP sounds a little young so I'd say that might be typical of someone in their late teens or early 20's.
 
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Harvey7 is offline Harvey7 Post #6  July 12,2009, 3:58am

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I had to read your note 3 or 4 times to try and understand what you said!
I do believe that you would be confused with or without a boy friend.
I also feel that your to immature to be in a real relationship, now ad in poor communication skills and a great deal of anger for no real reason.
The confusion is internal and you don''t know how to cope with your anger so your venting on your boyfriend. Time for you to take a time out and find out why you are so confused with a good therapist, before you screw up your relationship.

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