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So I would really like some advice on my relationship as I have no idea what to do. I have been dating a guy for almost a year and this last week our relationship crumbled. It started when I found a text message on his phone from my best friend telling him to use the back door when he came over. He said he had no idea why she sent it and she said something different. He changed his story and said he had text her earlier that night and it was just to pick up some stuff from her house. I told him until I figured out what was going on not to talk to her or text her or call her.

The next day I tried calling him and he wouldn't answer so I drove down to his parents house where he was house-sitting for them and he wasn't there. I got one of those bad feelings and went by my best friends house and no one was there, she was moving to a new place that day and I drove over there and on my way my bf's car had broken down and he was sitting there with all of her stuff in his truck. I flipped out and yelled at him and her and asked him why he went behind my back again. He claimed he was just helping yet neither one of them could answer their phones.

I found out a few days later they were still talking. He moved out a few days ago and I have not seen him really since. He is now saying he is trying to get help as he has a drinking problem and that he is trying to figure his life out. I still love him and want to work on our relationship. He rarely answers my phone calls anymore and when I asked him if we were still dating he said we were. Now the problem is that I feel like I am in a bad place. I am still with him so I can't go out with other men, but he hasn't wanted to see me or talk to me at all either.

He told me today that on Monday he may just move to another state and that by doing this he is preparing me. I feel pretty dumb for even being in this situation but I am so confused with what is happening that I don't know what to do. Two weeks ago we were planning a vacation and now this. I need advice!
 
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