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pussinboots is offline pussinboots Post #1  July 4,2009, 10:19am
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I have a question, which has probably not been asked before, for past and present eHarmony subscribers

When giving your comments about whether the thread starter should give someone another chance, be more patient, get back together with someone, re-open a match etc., do you tend to be positive or negative based on your own experiences on eH?

For example, I am not feeling too positive right now about my own experiences on eH and that might influence my postings.
 
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Harvey7 is offline Harvey7 Post #2  July 4,2009, 11:15am

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pussinboots wrote :
I have a question, which has probably not been asked before, for past and present eHarmony subscribers

When giving your comments about whether the thread starter should give someone another chance, be more patient, get back together with someone, re-open a match etc., do you tend to be positive or negative based on your own experiences on eH?

For example, I am not feeling too positive right now about my own experiences on eH and that might influence my postings.
I'm not sure what your trying to tell us so stop mumbling and be straight forward. Say what you mean and mean, what you say!

The problem with most of the posters they have lost the ability to be objective about themselves and their situation.and are asking the other member for objective feed back.

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I try to put myself in the other person's shoes. If I were that person, what would I want to do? AND, what would be best for me? Often, two different things!

I say what I believe will help. I may tone it down so as not to give offense. If I really disagree with the OP, I will say so. They asked for my advice; they get my honest opinion.

Sometimes I don't post at all. If I feel I can't control what I say. Too many Drama Queens out there. I usually don't read the long OP; more than 10 posts, I don't even open them!

Not known for my patience!
 
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Interesting question.
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IcecreamMoon is offline IcecreamMoon Post #5  July 5,2009, 11:16am
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Harvey7 wrote :
I'm not sure what your trying to tell us so stop mumbling and be straight forward. Say what you mean and mean, what you say!

The problem with most of the posters they have lost the ability to be objective about themselves and their situation.and are asking the other member for objective feed back.

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Wootz is offline Wootz Post #6  July 5,2009, 1:11pm
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Based on my experiences at eHa...?

I usually just call 'em as I see em. Doesn't everybody? Sure, my experience at eHa affects how I look at these things, but that's quite far from the only factor here.
 
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Wootz wrote :
Based on my experiences at eHa...?

I usually just call 'em as I see em. Doesn't everybody? Sure, my experience at eHa affects how I look at these things, but that's quite far from the only factor here.
I've missed your smiley face, hidden behind the trees, Wootz.
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Mr_Right is offline Mr_Right Post #8  July 5,2009, 6:09pm
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pussinboots wrote :
I have a question, which has probably not been asked before, for past and present eHarmony subscribers

When giving your comments about whether the thread starter should give someone another chance, be more patient, get back together with someone, re-open a match etc., do you tend to be positive or negative based on your own experiences on eH?

For example, I am not feeling too positive right now about my own experiences on eH and that might influence my postings.
I call a spade a spade, and I keep things real, but I do tend to see the world in a positive, glass half-full view.
 
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stevex is offline stevex Post #9  July 5,2009, 7:13pm
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I can only base my thoughts off what the OP says and my personal experiences. I try to be objective as possible and I try to be the most positive. I will often give two sides, the negative and the positive. Not sure if I have been helpful or not but I like to think that I have raised some thought and helped people answer questions about themselves and what they desire.
 
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Mr_Right wrote :
I call a spade a spade, and I keep things real, but I do tend to see the world in a positive, glass half-full view.
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