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We all have our stories of those puzzling moments in relationships -- that were red flags you should have listened to.

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- July 2nd, 2009, 09:15 pm
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Like when he was at a strip club just a few days after we were married? (I was at work and had no clue)
- July 2nd, 2009, 10:59 pm
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tabbylo, whoa! That's outrageous.
- July 3rd, 2009, 04:44 am
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chawks64 had a really great 2nd date...

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Told me about his DUI within the first few minutes of our first date. But friends said he seemed to have learned his lesson.

Told me about his trip to the brothel on our 3rd date.

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- July 3rd, 2009, 05:37 am
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I wouldn't know where to begin......lol ugh
- July 3rd, 2009, 06:35 am
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When he compared himself to Harrison Ford and turned out to be Peewee Herman.
- July 3rd, 2009, 07:06 am
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- July 3rd, 2009, 08:40 am
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"My ex and I are still best friends" (before date) ,Uhm,.... (during date) "actually we are still "roommates""
- July 3rd, 2009, 09:47 am
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When he compared himself to Harrison Ford and turned out to be Peewee Herman.

Was he "caught" in public...lol?
- July 3rd, 2009, 11:06 am
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A woman I was talking to said that her ex fiance gave her genital herpes. It did seem odd that she mentioned what sort of car she drove and how much money she made prior to disclosing this info. Regardless...
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