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A date told me that he was in the middle of getting a divorce...then mentioned he was out on bail for assualt....finally stated that it was his soon to be ex-wife who had him arrested for assaulting her....I wish I was joking.
 
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Shelby wrote :
One of my last dates was with an EH guy that I diagnosed as having borderline personality disorder. Within a single phone call, he changed from adoring me and putting me on a pedestal to despising me and being repulsed by me. I ended up having to block his e-mail address and his phone number because of the harassing calls and messages. That relationship would have been a rollercoaster nightmare!
OMG....this sounds EXACTLY like I guy I was matched with! On one hand he had me on a pedestal and talked about how great I was and then on the other he would say things to me that I can't even repeat on here. Eventually I found out he spent nine years in an adult psychiatric facility prior to us meeting on EH, only he didn't tell me this until waaaayyyy into our communication with one another. I completely flipped out because to me, that's something I feel you need to know. He was from out of state and thank God I never met him.
 
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littlebluemonkeymind wrote :
*brought handcuffs on a first date.

*lied about his marital status and admitted an attraction to the high school girls he taught...again, on a first date.

*shared with me his near suicide attempt after his third divorce...first date.

*told me some obviously delusional story about having been in Special Forces and being forced out due to a black ops mission gone bad...claimed he was later assigned to guard duty at the Pentagon where he shot a General who did not produce proper ID. First date. Then proceeded to attempt to stalk and threaten me when I refused to see him again.

These were all men who sincerely wanted to continue to see me and seemed confused and a bit hurt when I declined.
For some reason I read this thinking it was the same guy all four times
 
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