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wow, my exes are being ruthless tonight!! Jeez ladies, was I that bad?

- July 6th, 2009, 07:05 pm
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The threat of a divorce one week after the wedding.
- July 6th, 2009, 08:28 pm
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My EH match told me...
He and his wife used to swing at sex clubs;
His second wife was the woman he had cheated on his first wife with; then he cheated on her two (twice-divorced. naturally);
He had sexual harassment charges filed against him by several women at his work location.

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- July 6th, 2009, 09:26 pm
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Monica1 wrote :
Sorry, but that's pretty funny too!
Yeah, you're right. It is pretty funny
- July 6th, 2009, 09:26 pm
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Red Flags begin!
1) He told me first he was divorced for 2 months, later find out he was still living with his WIFE. (gee's oh pete)

3) After I thought the Divorce was final, we dated for a while, I find out he is still talkin to his 'ex' and swearing he 'loves' me, and Hiding the fact that ops yea the divorce still haddnt been filed! (yea shoulda left then right?) It lasted another 9months until I found he was cheating on me (duh! big red truck!) an I broke up with him.

4) Met a guy on eH, after 2 phone convos he tells me that he's not 'packin' in 'that' department if ya catch my drift (I'm like where did that come from?? But thats ok if we really like eachother we can make it work right?) He was tellin me that he really was fallin for me after, oh lets see, 5 phone calls I think? (it came out that I was the only one to make it to OC with him in over a yr, an he was really attached to me)

5) Met another fella from eH, phone convos went Great! Was starting to feel that click like it might end up being somethin, he really liked to do everything I liked, then it dies out after I noticed for every story I told about my life, he had a bigger an better/worse story about him or someone he knew that went through that same thing!

6) Ex tracks you down, calls you up wants to see ya for coffee, while talkin on the phone, you find out that he still has feelings for the woman he cheated on you with and that he was just lonely and wanted to 'hang out' and have 'fun' if ya know what I mean. bye bye
Crazy how I can come up with more than this. I just have bad taste in fella's or what???
- July 7th, 2009, 12:52 pm
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[quote=pds857;665845]Red Flags begin!
1) He told me first he was divorced for 2 months, later find out he was still living with his WIFE. (gee's oh pete)

3) After I thought the Divorce was final, we dated for a while, I find out he is still talkin to his 'ex' and swearing he 'loves' me, and Hiding the fact that ops yea the divorce still haddnt been filed! (yea shoulda left then right?) It lasted another 9months until I found he was cheating on me (duh! big red truck!) an I broke up with him.


Oh yeah.....how could I forget. This happened to me too. It was real great when he showed up wearing his wedding band and I flipped out and then almost collapsed in the yard. --Very very very bad experience
- July 7th, 2009, 12:59 pm
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Monica1 wrote :
Sorry, but that's pretty funny too!
What's funny is that I met someone tonight who was exactly like her (must be something they put in the taps). Think I had better just leave well enough alone
- July 7th, 2009, 09:10 pm
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brneyedangel wrote :
Laced, this reminds me of one of mine from about 6 years ago:

*phone rings*

OPERATOR--Collect call from XXX County Jail, will you accept the charges?

ME--Uhhhhhhh...I guess so *wondering who managed to get into what trouble*

HIM--Uh, hi there...it's XXX. I'm going to have to cancel our date tonight. I got pulled over for speeding and they picked me up for not paying my child support.

ME--*click*

'nuff said.
So sorry to hear that you had a run-in with my ex....(lol).

I once accepted a blind date with a guy who spent most of the evening telling me how he was trying to convince his therapist that he didn't have borderline personality disorder. I was pretty much convinced of the opposite well before the check arrived......
- July 7th, 2009, 10:15 pm
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graceventually wrote :
So sorry to hear that you had a run-in with my ex....(lol).

lol...At least we both had the common sense to get away from that one, right?

I once accepted a blind date with a guy who spent most of the evening telling me how he was trying to convince his therapist that he didn't have borderline personality disorder. I was pretty much convinced of the opposite well before the check arrived......
Yikes!
- July 8th, 2009, 03:46 pm
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After the first month, she tells me she has gotten back with her ex ... I say no worries and wish her the best of luck ... 3 months later I get a text message ... After asking who it was, I get asked if I want to see a movie ... I say .. Sure ... She pulls out two gift cards for the tickets (I had two in my pocket, she just had them handy quicker) ... We talk a bit ... She broke up with her ex ... She had gone to jail for hitting him (she is 5'0, he is 6'5), but she indicated she was fighting the charges ... Then tells me she lost her job because her ex had a child where she works ... That she had been hitting up the various job sites et al ...

Anyways ... Next day, see a message on facebook to the effect of 'Some 'friends' can be such jerks when times get tough' ... Now, I might be slightly cynical, but the day before the text we had put up a listing that we were hiring with my contact info ... I have this sinking suspiscion that the reason she never responded was I didn't bring up the fact that we were hiring.
- July 8th, 2009, 06:45 pm
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