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First date: "I spent most of last year in jail for stalking my ex-girlfriend."

Buh-bye!
- July 3rd, 2009, 12:08 pm
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Like when he was at a strip club just a few days after we were married? (I was at work and had no clue)
That's disgraceful. I never understood the infatuation with strip clubs. After a concert one night, some guys asked if I wanted to go to a strip club and I answered no. One replied, in disbelief, "you don't???". I just said I ain't about that.
- July 3rd, 2009, 12:10 pm
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Told me about his trip to the brothel on our 3rd date.

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Yeah, that's disgusting. Sick place to go to and I cannot see what he felt he would gain by admitting that to you.
- July 3rd, 2009, 12:15 pm
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First date: "I spent most of last year in jail for stalking my ex-girlfriend."

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That is actually quite an effective way to get out of seeing someone again that you don't want to.....
- July 3rd, 2009, 01:23 pm
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Michael1974 wrote :
That's disgraceful. I never understood the infatuation with strip clubs. After a concert one night, some guys asked if I wanted to go to a strip club and I answered no. One replied, in disbelief, "you don't???". I just said I ain't about that.
Wow! I wish we could duplicate you! I don't get it either, but I'm a girl.
- July 3rd, 2009, 02:14 pm
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txbubba wrote :
'nuff said



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- July 3rd, 2009, 02:15 pm
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Well how about when you spend all this time getting to know somoene on eH, they tell you they are health conscious, work out at the gym, etc, and when you meet them you see you've been lied to for weeks. A lie is a lie.... I'm sure I can come up with some much better ones. I'll have to think about this .....
- July 3rd, 2009, 02:27 pm
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First date: "I spent most of last year in jail for stalking my ex-girlfriend."

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Laced, this reminds me of one of mine from about 6 years ago:

*phone rings*

OPERATOR--Collect call from XXX County Jail, will you accept the charges?

ME--Uhhhhhhh...I guess so *wondering who managed to get into what trouble*

HIM--Uh, hi there...it's XXX. I'm going to have to cancel our date tonight. I got pulled over for speeding and they picked me up for not paying my child support.

ME--*click*

'nuff said.
- July 3rd, 2009, 02:32 pm
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brneyedangel wrote :
Laced, this reminds me of one of mine from about 6 years ago:

*phone rings*

OPERATOR--Collect call from XXX County Jail, will you accept the charges?

ME--Uhhhhhhh...I guess so *wondering who managed to get into what trouble*

HIM--Uh, hi there...it's XXX. I'm going to have to cancel our date tonight. I got pulled over for speeding and they picked me up for not paying my child support.

ME--*click*

'nuff said.
Well at least he used his phone call to let you know he wasn't going to make it rather than just leave you waiting for him.

That counts for something, right??
- July 3rd, 2009, 02:55 pm
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longsocks wrote :
Well at least he used his phone call to let you know he wasn't going to make it rather than just leave you waiting for him.

That counts for something, right??
Ahhh!! Too funny!
- July 3rd, 2009, 03:14 pm
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