sexysmile is offline sexysmile Post #1  June 24,2009, 6:43pm
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Wow! I am worn out! It has been one of the longest months!
I hate having to do the right thing... but it is actually one of my must haves. Had been seeing this guy for almost 9 months. Things had been rocky off and on.
I finally had to let him go this week.
Today he just kept coming at me wanting answers to so many questions. Many I had answered before. All I had was the same answers I had given him before.
After all this... I put some figures/stories and clues together and found out about a little deception and some mistreatment (hiding info.) of me. Well, that took the cake... you don't use me. You have one chance and I'm gone.
Always, always go on your intuition!!!! It is never wrong. God gave it to you for a reason!
Anyway, I'm home, hot and sweaty (it was a 110 in the greenhouse today!) and mad as a hatter!
Just wanted to vent to my friends on eHA.
Hope everyone else has had a better than I!
 
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IcecreamMoon is offline IcecreamMoon Post #2  June 24,2009, 6:56pm
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I completely agree. Every time my instinct told me there was something wrong, there usually was. I keep coming back to this, but our instinct usually knows us better than we know ourselves.

Sorry it didn't work out this time. A great night out on the town with some girfriends and flirting with some funny guys usually does the trick for me, at least temporarily.

Take care.
 
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brneyedangel is offline brneyedangel Post #3  June 24,2009, 6:58pm
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I'm so sorry to hear this happened to you, especially after the time you've invested in the relationship. You are right, though--always trust your intuition. Whenever I have, it's been dead on. Whenever I haven't, I've regretted it immensely.

Best wishes to you!
 
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Here's to better days ahead.

(and a cool breeze wouldn't hurt a bit, would it?)
 
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Yes, go with that gut instinct!
 
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j0hn8andy is offline j0hn8andy Post #6  June 25,2009, 5:33am
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I am so Intuitive that I put it down as the thing people notice about me first! That funny little feeling inside that something is not quite right is your intuition looking out for you. We don't always WANT to know but I trust mine implicitly.

I wonder if women are better at this than men. It would stand to reason...
 
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Sorry to hear that you had to end the relationship but I am a firm believer in listening to your instincts. I second guessed myself about one person only to be burned later down the road. Never again.

Make sure you are drinking plenty of fluids. Do not drink just Gatorade as you can end up with too much potassium causing problems fast.
 
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Ladies, I agree with you -- with a modification.

I would say, "Trust your 'gut' or 'intuition' if it tells you something is wrong, but do not necessarily trust if it tells you everything is rosy".

Check the latter carefully to insure that optimism isn't influencing intuition in directions that can be harmful.
 
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JDavid wrote :
Ladies, I agree with you -- with a modification.

I would say, "Trust your 'gut' or 'intuition' if it tells you something is wrong, but do not necessarily trust if it tells you everything is rosy".

Check the latter carefully to insure that optimism isn't influencing intuition in directions that can be harmful.
I would agree with this if you're caught up in the moment or in the beginnings of a romance. Everything does seem quite rosy then, and you're right, you can be wrongly influenced. But I tend to find it is at these moments when my intuition will kick in if there's a need, and it will nag me until I listen...or until I fall on my face...one or the other.
 
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JDavid wrote :
Ladies, I agree with you -- with a modification.

I would say, "Trust your 'gut' or 'intuition' if it tells you something is wrong, but do not necessarily trust if it tells you everything is rosy".

Check the latter carefully to insure that optimism isn't influencing intuition in directions that can be harmful.

Very astute observation!
 
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