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canadadaygirl is offline canadadaygirl Post #1  June 20,2009, 6:18pm
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I have so many other women telling me not to date or spend any time with men. Learn to live on your own.... well I have done that and am doing that.... and I am not wanting to be alone. I am not needy or wanting a male to take care of me. I have a house and a good job. I really enjoy the company of a male.
I so enjoy a guy's point of view which is usually on target and very direct...
I like their self confidence and I love when they open up and show their vulnerable side.
I enjoy cooking with them/ talking with them/ biking/canoeing with them... I like the smell of their cologne.
Of course I want honesty, Integrity and someone who I can trust completely and they would get the same in return....
I just want the man... my perfect match... the material things do not matter.....I do want a commitment and a long term relationship
So to all the men out there thank you so much for all my life lessons and making me a strong confident woman....
Please advise me now on how to find that strong confident man???
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BobinFla is offline BobinFla Post #2  June 20,2009, 6:24pm
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To start with, do what you feel you need, do not listen to everything others tell you.

I can't say how to find the man you are looking for, but be yourself and like you state in this post and you should be able to find the one you are looking for.

Good luck in your search.
 
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D_Lion is online now D_Lion Post #3  June 20,2009, 6:43pm
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Is the title like a fill-in-the-blank question?

Maybe it's a contest!
 
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JDavid is offline JDavid Post #4  June 20,2009, 6:45pm
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canadadaygirl wrote :
Please advise me now on how to find that strong confident man???
The first thing that comes to mind is to fill out your profile with interesting information about yourself and include photographs.

Becoming involved in these threads can provide a lot of insight into the character of people who post. Some you will like and others you may not. Invest the time necessary to learn about people.

Identify your priorities, but avoid unnecessarily limiting yourself. For instance, try to avoid thinking or specifying that a man must be no shorter than 5'10" (or whatever). Would it really make any difference in life if he was a half inch less?
 
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canadadaygirl wrote :
I like the smell of their cologne.
I do too...
I understand what you are saying, except maybe that cooking stuff, which ruins my perfect manicure , and some other interests.

The only thing I would suggest is to stop looking for "perfect". Sometimes, life takes you by surprise, and you meet someone amazing, who comes in a completely different package, and a completely different place, than you ever anticipated.

And welcome to the madness. There are some amazing guys here, you'll soon find out. And, luckily, you are closer to them than I am
 
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D_Lion wrote :
Is the title like a fill-in-the-blank question?
It's designed to test your imagination
 
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lindseyk is offline lindseyk Post #7  June 20,2009, 7:08pm

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IcecreamMoon wrote :
I do too...
I understand what you are saying, except maybe that cooking stuff, which ruins my perfect manicure , and some other interests.

The only thing I would suggest is to stop looking for "perfect". Sometimes, life takes you by surprise, and you meet someone amazing, who comes in a completely different package, and a completely different place, than you ever anticipated.

And welcome to the madness. There are some amazing guys here, you'll soon find out. And, luckily, you are closer to them than I am
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I am loving my unexpected someone!

Good luck in your search, OP! I hope you get a great surprise soon!
 
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Male friends are tricky at first, especially if you're a woman they're attracted to. Once you get all that outta the way, ie 'we're just friends' and 'no, we can't be friends with benefits' then the friendship usually blossoms into something beautiful. I tend to love advice from my male friends when I need a straight forward answer, but when I need a more loving/compassionate response, I turn to my female friends. :-)
 
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Harvey7 is offline Harvey7 Post #9  June 20,2009, 11:11pm

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I think that you might say that you are a "mans women" say verses a "woman's women" or just one of the girls!

There are some women that are just one of the guys and know how to be a friend verses a catty carrier of tales who can't keep a secret.

The best place to meet your kind of man is on the Golf Course or a unisex bathroom. Welcome aboard.

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IcecreamMoon is offline IcecreamMoon Post #10  June 21,2009, 12:01am
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Harvey7 wrote :
I think that you might say that you are a "mans women" say verses a "woman's women" or just one of the girls!

There are some women that are just one of the guys and know how to be a friend verses a catty carrier of tales who can't keep a secret.

The best place to meet your kind of man is on the Golf Course or a unisex bathroom. Welcome aboard.

Harvey7.
How do you ever come up with such insanity?
However it is, I really like it...
 
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