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Bossco is offline Bossco Post #1  June 3,2009, 3:07pm
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I am fast approaching the final stage of communicating with this really
nice guy, except for one thing. I sense that he is very self concious about his looks. From what I can tell, he's a "Mr. Goodbody". But
for cosmetic shortcomings, he feels somewhat insecure. I have yet to
talk with him or see him in person. I'm sure we'll at least email each other very soon. Any suggestions on how to make him feel 100% assured that beauty is only skin deep?
 
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Bossco wrote :
I am fast approaching the final stage of communicating with this really
nice guy, except for one thing. I sense that he is very self concious about his looks. From what I can tell, he's a "Mr. Goodbody". But
for cosmetic shortcomings, he feels somewhat insecure. I have yet to
talk with him or see him in person. I'm sure we'll at least email each other very soon. Any suggestions on how to make him feel 100% assured that beauty is only skin deep?
You havn't talked or seen him in person and you're able to sense this? Give him a chance, perhaps you are wrong. What is giving you this impression?
 
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What's a Mr. Goodbody?
 
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Ignore it totally and go forward.
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Ron2758 is offline Ron2758 Post #5  June 3,2009, 5:52pm
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Problem with Eharmony (and online dating currently) is that it's a little taboo. Basically men and women are only willing to justify online dating if they find the "perfect mate".

I realize this isn't everyone, but I've gotten to OC a lot and went on a lot of dates from EH... (I'm not super hot or anything just young and a lot of matches.. so odds are good lol) The girls I've dated or reached OC have all tried to "peg" me early on.


What do I mean? I had a beautiful girl turn me down because one of my pictures I sent after OC was me in a bar with friends... apparently this meant I was an immature drunkard. I wasn't doing anything other than smiling with friends in the pic......
 
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Ron2758 is offline Ron2758 Post #6  June 3,2009, 5:58pm
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MelinCali wrote :
What's a Mr. Goodbody?

It's a guy who only cares about his body. Basically lives for working out... has the tub o protein powder etc etc
 
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