musmusculus is offline musmusculus Post #1  May 28,2009, 9:17pm
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I met her on Mingle and we went out for the first time on April 18. We had lunch at a diner and both got so caught up in our conversation that we lost track of the time. Five dates and probably 50 hours on the phone later, we both decided to become exclusive. We haven't told anyone but our closest friends and relatives yet because, in her words, "we want some special time together - moments that only we share for a while longer."

I'm happy and relieved because it's been tough juggling multiple dates every week and keeping track of four online dating profiles while going to work every day. I've turned off EH matching and won't be renewing my subscription. I've also disabled my other profiles. I'm so glad that I joined four dating sites rather than relying only on one. My SO only posted her profile on Mingle.

As a courtesy to the women with whom I've met for a date and exchanged phone calls and e-mails, I sent them a short e-mail letting them know that I'm in a relationship. I didn't want to keep them guessing or worse, just poof on them. A couple of them are Facebook friends and I hope they remain so.

I'll still remain active on this board just as she will keep in touch with her online friends from Mingle's forum.
 
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scarlet13 is offline scarlet13 Post #2  May 28,2009, 9:55pm

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yay!
 
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Harvey7 is offline Harvey7 Post #3  May 30,2009, 10:21am

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dnnmllr is offline dnnmllr Post #4  May 30,2009, 10:26am
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"Steady my feet in accord with your promise, Let not iniquity lead me"...

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I wish you (both) much happiness.
 
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Mr_Right is offline Mr_Right Post #5  May 30,2009, 11:32am
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says this is the best wedding picture!

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Pictures! The fans require pictures!
 
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littlebluemonkeymind is offline littlebluemonkeymind Post #6  May 30,2009, 12:52pm
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Congratulations! Good luck and thanks for sharing your story.

Also, nice move to communicate with your other matches and dates.
 
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neardc is offline neardc Post #7  May 30,2009, 2:17pm
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Toodles, sayonara, and happy trails! Wishing everyone luck and love...

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I've enjoyed watching your story unfold over the last few weeks. You are doing great (doubly so for someone who has been "out of the game"!).

It sounds to me like she's found a great catch.
 
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meri75 is offline meri75 Post #8  May 30,2009, 2:45pm
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Congratulations! You must be so stoked!
 
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KungFuFtr is offline KungFuFtr Post #9  June 1,2009, 8:25am
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Congrats RockStar!
 
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sabete2002 is offline sabete2002 Post #10  June 1,2009, 8:46am
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About to celebrate one year with the best guy on the planet!

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It's always nice to see good news. Thanks for sharing yours. Enjoy!
 
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