heartnsoul is offline heartnsoul Post #1  May 19,2009, 4:00pm
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I met this guy two months ago,we became the best of friends.Never had such a friendship.I had a few bad relationships.Now we are in a relationship.Friends first is the best way to know there the one.We prayed and now we know.When you are not looking you find a mate,soulmate.Be patient,pray,wait on God to guide.
 
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Congratulations heartnsoul! Great to hear that you were able to turn a friendship into so much more.

I'm curious about whether or not other Members have had the same type of relationship in the past. If so, how was that relationship any different from ones that went straight to romance (if at all).

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simply put, if this guy leaves you, what will you do then? relationships are for people who can't hack it on their own. grow some strength and learn to fend for yourself. at the end of the day the only person that will be there for you is you!
 
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Can you give some more detail about how being “friends” helps you determine a person is a good relationship candidate?
 
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simply put, if this guy leaves you, what will you do then? relationships are for people who can't hack it on their own. grow some strength and learn to fend for yourself. at the end of the day the only person that will be there for you is you!
I could not disagree with this comment more. We are built and designed for relationships. Otherwise we wouldn't be in forums like this. Now I do agree that you have to be okay on your own first (dependency issues) but to make such a blanket statement is utterly false.
 
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sc4me wrote :
I could not disagree with this comment more. We are built and designed for relationships. Otherwise we wouldn't be in forums like this. Now I do agree that you have to be okay on your own first (dependency issues) but to make such a blanket statement is utterly false.
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