Advice and Support from Thousands of Users Just Like You

Relationships Relationships: they have their ups and their downs. Share your joy or weather the storm in this discussion board.

Reply
Page 1 of 3 1 2 3
 
LinkBack Thread Tools
eharmonyadvice eharmonyadvice is offline
eharmonyadvice's Avatar

Moderator

Join Date: Oct 2007

Posts: 852

See profile

The best relationships are based on honesty and integrity. So what do you do when you find your partner has been dishonest?
- May 8th, 2009, 02:58 am
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#1   Reply With Quote
SweetCityGirl SweetCityGirl is offline
SweetCityGirl's Avatar

Newbie

Join Date: May 2009

Posts: 1

See profile



This artical has no advice on what to do when you have been lied to as the header states. It merely tells why its important and which ways.
- May 8th, 2009, 03:00 am
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#2   Reply With Quote
Liazbeth Liazbeth is offline
Liazbeth's Avatar

Newbie

Join Date: May 2009

Posts: 1

See profile



fisrt step it tallk get a good communication, if the dishonesty still happent just go awway because that never could be your wife or husbad because thel always lied
- May 9th, 2009, 01:35 pm
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#3   Reply With Quote
jpetrozzi1 jpetrozzi1 is offline
jpetrozzi1's Avatar

Newbie

Join Date: Jan 2008

Posts: 9

See profile



I have been involved in a relationship where my girlfriend lied about major topics, which I can't figure out how she could think I would not figure it out. Before we started dating we were friends and when we decided to date I asked her if she was divorced and she said " YES. I am waiting on my papers, which should be in the mail anyday" as she pointed towards her mailbox as we were talking in her driveway. Short story, she was still maried. I am happy I can still trust.
- May 9th, 2009, 02:36 pm
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#4   Reply With Quote
Jazmintte Jazmintte is offline
Jazmintte's Avatar

Jazmintte smiles and says hey!

Quick Study

Join Date: Jan 2009

Posts: 96

See profile



Short answer....I don't deal with dishonesty in the relationship. Honesty is the thing I value the most...without it, there is no relationship.
- May 9th, 2009, 02:43 pm
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#5   Reply With Quote

ADVERTISEMENT

BelieverinKY BelieverinKY is offline
BelieverinKY's Avatar

Quick Study

Join Date: Apr 2008

Posts: 56

See profile



It doesn't matter if it's a white lie or a big one, I move on, simple as that!
- May 9th, 2009, 02:45 pm
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#6   Reply With Quote
jpetrozzi1 jpetrozzi1 is offline
jpetrozzi1's Avatar

Newbie

Join Date: Jan 2008

Posts: 9

See profile



Do not put up with a chronic lier. Once a lier always a lier. that don't change. trust me.... lol
- May 9th, 2009, 02:49 pm
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#7   Reply With Quote
jpetrozzi1 jpetrozzi1 is offline
jpetrozzi1's Avatar

Newbie

Join Date: Jan 2008

Posts: 9

See profile

Jazmintte wrote :

Short answer....I don't deal with dishonesty in the relationship. Honesty is the thing I value the most...without it, there is no relationship.
I totally agree with you
- May 9th, 2009, 02:51 pm
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#8   Reply With Quote
hubertg hubertg is offline
hubertg's Avatar

Newbie

Join Date: May 2009

Posts: 4

See profile



How do I deal with it???? I walk !! I was married for 25 years, she cheated on me,...now I'm divorced and I don't look back...I am totally faithful and expect nothing less.....I have been divorced now 8years and I gotta tell ya,..it don't hurt me one bit to say that I have never spoken to her since, nor will I ever speak to her again....,I have forgiven her for my own peace of mind, but it all stops right there.
- May 11th, 2009, 12:53 am
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#9   Reply With Quote
delicaterose delicaterose is offline
delicaterose's Avatar

Newbie

Join Date: May 2009

Posts: 2

See profile

I have just left my partner of 3 years for the FINAL time becuase of his chronic lying and deciet. Even when confronted with the cold hard facts about his lying he could still look me in the eye and lie. I've realized that by forgiving and trying to move past his lies and the distrust it was not doing him, me or the relationship any justice. I suspect that he has been like this all his life and his previous 3 marriages ended because of his deciet and lies. The only consulation for me is that he will end up a lonely old man because of it.
- May 16th, 2009, 07:10 pm
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#10   Reply With Quote

ADVERTISEMENT

Reply
Page 1 of 3 1 2 3

Bookmarks

« The Benefits of Commitment | Array | Advice Please! How "Stand By your you man" Hurt ME »
Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts
BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is On
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On

Latest on our Dating Advice Discussion Boards

“Two or Three dates, but it depends on the people and their level of trust and open mindedness? Harvey7.” – Harvey7

Join the “how many dates before a guy...” discussion

“Get with the program man! As soon as a man is born, he's automatically guilty. I thought you knew that. I say this because all too often on the internet per dating, it's all one sided. There are ... ” – roguewolf1

Join the “Frustrated & Confused: Is He A Sexual Addict???” discussion

“My "problem" with the girl who got flaky on me seems so trivial now. I found out today that my sister's husband is having an affair, and wants to end the marriage. I heard it from my father. He ... ” – lostdude

Join the “What can I do?” discussion

“I would tend to think that when she did not want to kiss you, it was the kiss off! As they say talk is cheap let ones actions and deeds speak for them. You still have enough time to find and bring ... ” – Harvey7

Join the “3rd Date Confusion...” discussion

“Ooooh, goody, goody, goody, pet peeves! ~ I hate it when I'm in the ladies and I hear the mobile phone ring in the next cubicle and she answers it. Hello! Some privacy wouldn't go astray here ... ” – meri75

Join the “"I *HATE* it when.....” discussion

“~ Education: I hated school. I only completed my HSC because my parents would not let me leave school with only my School Certificate at age 16. I put myself through TAFE in a course which taught ... ” – meri75

Join the “What's the "right" order of things (planning your life)?” discussion

“I have three sisters, 7 nieces, a step daughter and a daughter. I guess I am more sensitive to a woman's safety and comfort level than my own. It always amazes me the level of trust a woman I have ... ” – mikeinor

Join the “Safety precautions and dating” discussion

“I don't think you are doing anything wrong. I've not been on eHarmony very long, but I've had some odd experiences. Always curious, I posted a few different photos of myself. Some that were very ... ” – mlennan

Join the “What am I doing wrong?” discussion



All times are GMT -7. The time now is 01:48 am.

Discussion Boards Archive

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.1
Copyright ©2000 - 2009, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Search Engine Friendly URLs by vBSEO 3.3.0