Agreeing Disagreeably: in relationships, and here on our boards


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dolphin239 is offline dolphin239 Post #1  April 29,2009, 11:06am
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The link to the article is not working for me
 
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tweet37 is offline tweet37 Post #2  April 29,2009, 11:23am
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The link to the article is not working for me
I agree.
 
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lucky173 is offline lucky173 Post #3  April 29,2009, 11:33am
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The link to the article is not working for me


I agree.
I agreeably disagree.


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(link doesn't work for me either, I just wanted to disagree in an agreeable fashion :-) )
 
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Jacquiem is offline Jacquiem Post #4  April 29,2009, 11:36am
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Doesn't work for me, either. But I don't like to argue. I have learned that it's not that big of a deal to be right. All the time. Okay, I'm still working on it!


I'd rather agree that we're not going to agree on this one,then let'sgo to Coldstone and get some ice cream. Maybe revisit it when we're both less emotional about it. Or just decide it's not that big of a deal to me and let it go completely. I can live without angry and mean being part of my life.
 
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outlaw1 is offline outlaw1 Post #5  April 29,2009, 11:43am

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Definitly my miscommunication. The link must work but I'm not doing it right Great title and excellent thread to be. Let's agree to disagree in an agreeable fashion. Great goal and skills to shoot for. I for one, want tolearnand conquer these skills.
 
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vapsman88 is offline vapsman88 Post #6  April 29,2009, 11:45am
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That was a fabulous article, loved it!
 
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tweet37 is offline tweet37 Post #7  April 29,2009, 11:58am
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That was a fabulous article, loved it!
I agree. Every bit as informative as the ones by Christian Carter.
 
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I noticed this article on Advice yesterday:
http://advice.eharmony.com/article/7...agreeably.html


And I thought it wasREALLY good, and that these principles also apply here on our boards as well.


How does your own arguing style measure up in relationships?


How about here on the boards?


Really looking forward to your thoughts!


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You guys are hilarious - I fixed the link!


What do you think?
 
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Jacquesne is offline Jacquesne Post #10  April 29,2009, 12:33pm
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I think I need to learn to listen more =).


It's something I've been working on for several years now. It's amazing what you learn about people when you just keep your thoughts to yourself for a bit.


It's also amazingly difficult. But yeah, I've heard most of those things before in various communications classes and books. Still great information.


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