okidoll is offline okidoll Post #21  April 24,2009, 5:07pm
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You didn't mess anything up. He did. His loss. Glad the shirt came in handy.
 
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Harvey7 is offline Harvey7 Post #22  April 25,2009, 11:12am

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I have never heard of a guy dumping a girl because the sex or her cooking was to good. I would think that in retrospect you may have pushed his panic button. I would send him back his shirt with a note, that if his broken hand has healed you like to hear from him. (period) As they say time heals all wounds.


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Thanks for the input Harvey.. But I think sending the shirt back would be a problem consideringI washed my car with it and it's a little...dirty. Was that juvenile? Probably. Do I want him back? Nope. At the point in the game (early: first 2 months) we should be head over heels for each other not poofing and starting arguments via text message.
Also.. not sure where you found broken hand?

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BillLvsGolf is offline BillLvsGolf Post #24  April 28,2009, 4:58am
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WVC, You learn to get a thick skin doing this online dating thing. Poofers are a pain in the a**, as they don't have the guts or courtesy to tell you they aren't interested. One thing I got out of the movie "He's just not that into you" ( Hey I got dragged to it!) was: If he wants it to happen, he will make it happen.


I've been online dating for the past 9 months and have met maybe 20 different women, plus numerous email connections. Most were very nice, but that spark never seemed to be there. Ran into several poofers along the way. I learned a lot during this journey. Finally, I think I found what I have been looking for. I met someone a few weeks ago and we just seem to click... have been out a half dozen times and that giddy feeling is there. We both have a lot in common and both of us decided individually to take our profiles offline. Time will tell if this is right, but it sure seems right now.


Don't give up. Someone is out there that is right for you. There is a great saying.....Don't push the river. When it's meant to happen it will. You just don't know when.
 
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