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Zoe_Foy is offline Zoe_Foy Post #21  March 27,2009, 11:36am
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The fact that he is still posting pictures you took of him on an on-line dating website shows that heis at the very least---still in the market---it doesn't sound exclusive to me. I think you should confront him so that you can define the relationship, especially if you are already planning to relocate. I have to honestlysayI don't think relocationplanningis such a goodidea after just 4 months. You're making it so easy that he may be second guessing the relationship.
 
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Marleybee,
There is no way of telling if someone is active at eHarmony. That is one of the problems that I have with this site. Once I am matched with someone I can see their profile even the ones that are closed I can still view them. Even people that are no longer paying can be seen by me.
Have you updated your profile stating that you have found the one? I have been on these boards and have heard some very strange things happening. Maybe this is a test to see if you are still active at eHarmony you mentioned that his wife cheated on him. The photo thing is weird but maybe one of his friends was pranking on him(have you ever watched Jack*ss) men do some really stupid things just for a joke.
Another possibility he could have thought you would have been flattered by him posting a photo that you took of him. If you really like this guy and this is all that he has done wrong then I would just talk to him about it I certainly would not jump to any conclusions without getting all the facts.


With all of that said personally if I get to a point that I am exclusive with a match I will update my profile and mention it in writing but that is just me
 
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