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Dear DLC872,

I've been off these boards for a while and so haven't been keeping up with people's lives. Today, you and several other people here came to mind and thought I'd check in and see how you and everyone are doing . . . .

I do feel very badly for you regarding your situation and the ongoing hurt and pain . . . .

People do care and, to answer your question, "No, you haven't beaten it to death. As long as it's a concern of your's, it does help to share as long as you feel comfortable doing so. It's easy for us to give advice but hard for the one in the situation as we all know with our own situations."

Of course, it MUST be your decision about what to do . . . . It's just that it's hard for us all to see you hurting so and for such a long time. I think everyone would like you to have peace and joy NOW but "amputating things" is so very hard and very, very painful at the time. Things do get better though after it is done. Many, many people here can attest to that from their own personal experience.

You're a very intelligent man and you do know all the things people have written! As we all know, hearing and acting are two separate matters and can only be done when the person is ready, and, at their own pace.

You are a man of hope - that is most clear to probably everyone and that is a very positive thing! Just be sure to place your hope in the right things so you're not disappointed.

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- October 29th, 2009, 11:07 pm
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