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Chemistry does have different meanings to different people - but regardless of its definition, everyone needs to feel some of it (in whatever way it means to them personally) to want to continue to see a personwith a view to romance. For some, intense sparks or fireworks are a must, while for others, simply good conversation will stimulate them to want to meet someone a 2nd time. Either way, it's "chemistry" as defined by that person.


I do need to be attracted to my partner physically (that covers a huge range of sins, I don't have a "type"), but if I go out to meet you, I've already seen your photos, so (provided they're current) that means I find you attractive. Lust alone has never led me to accept a 2nd date with a guy. Beyond the 1st meeting,I need "something" that makes me want to see someone again, and that has nothing to do with how cuteI find them - it always stems from a personality connection that makes me feel that conversation is natural, fun& comfortable, & thatmakes mewant to just keep talking to them. I must admit that I don't feel it very often, but when I do, I know it.


- February 18th, 2009, 05:43 am
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