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I have lived with my eharmony fiance for over a year, we have been together for almost three, and he propsed to me at Christmas. Two weeks ago, he tells me it is over and to get out. I am devastated. He cna't find a reason why he says its over, I did nothing wrong, and he didn't cheat on me either. The only thing that he says happened was he lied to me about things that were bothering him, and he won't even work things out with me. I had to leave that day, and he is kicking me out of the home I helped put money into. I am just so upset, and confused. I feel like garbage, and he is treating me like it. All of his friends don't understand this, and he doesn't think he owes me anything.


I don't know what to do. I'm tired of people telling me to get over him, and go out with someone else. I hate myself right now because of the things life we had together. I can't find a way to convince him to work things out. I just can't give up on a relationship where we were so happy, in the blink of an eye. What am I supposed to do? Not too mention financially he has just made things very difficult.
 
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