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hazmat is offline hazmat Post #11  February 1,2009, 4:21pm
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6 years and he's never taken you on a vacation with just the two of you ? ...LOSER


He promises trips and says he should do nice things for you, yet never does ? ...LIAR


Your instincts tell you he's having an affair...CHEATER


Do you really think this is the best you can do or deserve ? ...NO


Don't waste 6 more years.
 
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RealityHitHard is offline RealityHitHard Post #12  February 3,2009, 9:57am
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I am sorry this is happening to you. I too, was engaged to be married (at his prompting) and about a month after I said yes, he changed. He didn't want to talk about the wedding, the ring, the move, nothing.


His behavior got to the point of being very passive-agressive and selfish (unlike him), until I had to say enough and goodbye. I am pretty sure this was just his way of back tracking and not being man enough to just say so. Oh well, it hurts like h*ll, but life goes on.


Good luck to you!!!


 
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haruo is offline haruo Post #13  February 3,2009, 4:20pm
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HI Izzy:


Well, either he is cheating on you or he has been watching some porn away from home and seems to want to try something different. His travelling is going to continue after marriage so take care about getting married to him. Will you be happy married to him? Hmmm, ask some more questions if you should marry him.





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Since you have sixyears invested into this relationship and your guy got up the nerve to commit this last spring I am inclined to think he has a committment phobia. I think you need to have a good sit-down tosort things out. If you do get satisfactory answers that you think are the truth then it is time to say goodbye and move on.
 
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