Men / Women who are relationship addicts

I think that may be part of it for some people. I think it's harder for extreme extraverts to be alone than it is for introverts or more moderate extraverts. However, that's only part of the equation, because an extravert can fulfill the need to be around people with friendships.

Scorpio,


As usual, you're right. =) When a relationship ends, it takes time to first, accept that it is over, understand why it is over, and then heal from the break up and work on things you should have learned from the previous relationship and break up. These things take longer than 2 weeks for most people


And Sizzle, just because you can hop from guy to guy or girl to girl or relationship to relationship; does not mean that you should or that it is healthy. Lots of people are single because they choose to make sure they are ready for a new relationship, that they have the time, emotional, and mental availability to begina relationship, esepecially if they want to jump right into serious relationships.


I know several people, men and women, who seem to fall in love with every person they date; and then when its over, two weeks later they are well on their way to being in love with someone else. Makes me wonder how deeply and how truly that person is capable of loving someone. When you love someone, and the relationship ends, it hurts.


Isn't it funny how some of the most negative people don't have pictures posted? Am I the only one who notices that? Are you so desirable that you are afraidI'll fall in love with your avatar?

I agree with LBMM's summation and solution.


Scorpio, like you I have often wondered about this conundrum.


My sisters were ALWAYS in a relationship. They had major boyfriends bridged by minor/ in-between boyfriends. I don't remember (except when one married) them ever NOT having a boyfriend. Not for even 10 minutes. I kid you not.


It is true there are many men who do the same thing. I've always been concerned that I might be a gap filler for one of those kind of guys.


It's got to be more than just a fear of being alone.


It's a fear of being alone romantically.

As morbid as it sounds, it has increasingly begun to feel like they have "died," very much like a person who is on drugs and "out there."


This topic is exactly what I'm experiencing with a friend of mine. I'm shocked at the truthful statement above. I can't explain my friends issues. We dated in March 08 and after our breakup, she was sleeping with someone else just 2 days later. Since then, she's had nearly a dozen other partners. I say this because we get along as friends, and she shared a disturbing dream with me late last year.


She dreamt she was in a room filled with good looking men and women, but the men were only paying attention to her and ignoring the gorgeous women in the room.


Now she's 4 foot 11, black hair and weighs only 95 pounds, so I had to ask what the women looked like and they were all taller and mostly blondes. My friend isattractive, intelligent and witty, but she always had to be the center of attention to all men in the room.


Her habits are much the same as you describe, but I can't understand what she sees in all the new relationships. She really has nothing to prove. It's as if she's addicted to her insecurity. We are currently fighting over a comment I made about someone I was dating (it's a sin to mention other women in her presence) but I know she'll come around soon.


My questions are: What are your friends physical features (height, weight, hair color)? Do they have a good or bad relationship with their parents?


I'll fill you in on my answers when I get some results.

It's as much a mystery to me as it is to you (scorpio). One of the most prominent character traits she exhibits is infallibility. No matter the topic, she's always right. My friend does smokesome weed and certainly enjoys drinking.


Do your friends get along with others? That's to say, do they find fault in everyone else, but not themselves?