pleh is offline pleh Post #1  January 8,2009, 12:44pm
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I recently started talking to this girl that I've known for some time, everything is good we have fun together love being with each other, but I just recently found out that she has alot of her guy friends sleep over at her house. Now shecompletely denies anything happening between them and shes been cheated on in the past, but if I didnt find out about this going on I dont thinkshe would have said anything. I need some help?? please
 
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That's insane, you need to get out of that
 
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yeah thats def not normal.....red flag!
 
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This goes back to "can men and women be friends w/o the sex thing getting in the way." In my experiece the sex thing always gets in the way.

If you want to be her friend it shouldn't matter. If you want more and it matters you need to discuss with her why they sleep over. Too much partying? Needs a place to stay? Fighting with whoever? Just for company?

Bottom line: if you can't deal with it no matter what the reason, move on.
 
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Cheating? Are you kidding?.. Are you sleeping over there too? And.... what are you two doing? She's telling each guy this story? Something is too weird here, maybe not even legal..
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Are they still all sleeping over? Since January?
Definite Red Flags here!
How many of them, again?
 
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never mind. it came across all wrong lol
 
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pleh wrote :
I recently started talking to this girl that I've known for some time, everything is good we have fun together love being with each other, but I just recently found out that she has alot of her guy friends sleep over at her house. Now shecompletely denies anything happening between them and shes been cheated on in the past, but if I didnt find out about this going on I dont thinkshe would have said anything. I need some help?? please
I would see that as a major red flag.
 
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chawks64 is offline chawks64 Post #9  August 2,2009, 5:17pm
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Yeah, whether anything is going on or not, it's just not something a woman should do because no normal guy is going to think that's okay. I'd talk to her about it, and if she insists on doing that, bail.

I'd be willing to bet that's not the only issue, though.
 
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Harvey7 is offline Harvey7 Post #10  August 3,2009, 8:24am

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Yes she is, but only with the ones that she chooses too sleep with! I would have to say, that everyone is getting some that is except you!

Maybe it's your school boy attitude?

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