jayjay is offline jayjay Post #11  August 3,2009, 9:50am
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...things seem to have gotten quiet around here.

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IcecreamMoon wrote :
Are they still all sleeping over? Since January?
Definite Red Flags here!
How many of them, again?
Yes...is it all of them at once or one at a time? You could ask to join them.
 
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pleh wrote :
I recently started talking to this girl that I've known for some time, everything is good we have fun together love being with each other, but I just recently found out that she has alot of her guy friends sleep over at her house. Now shecompletely denies anything happening between them and shes been cheated on in the past, but if I didnt find out about this going on I dont thinkshe would have said anything. I need some help?? please

Well, since you've known her a long time, and have only started talking, you're "just a friend" so what she does with other guys is none of your business.
 
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Bob_dB is offline Bob_dB Post #13  August 5,2009, 8:32am
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Oregon_Coast_Guy wrote :
Well, since you've known her a long time, and have only started talking, you're "just a friend" so what she does with other guys is none of your business.
yep, and, btw: if you ain't married, it ain't "cheating"
 
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96speed is offline 96speed Post #14  August 6,2009, 1:23pm
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Screw that!

She might be cheating and she might not be. Either way, its not cool. That would be the end for me.
 
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Oregon_Coast_Guy wrote :
Well, since you've known her a long time, and have only started talking, you're "just a friend" so what she does with other guys is none of your business.
Really. How can she be cheating on you if you two aren't even dating.
On the other side, just ask her: "If you and I were dating, would you continue to have your guy friends sleep over?" Her answer will tell you if you want to eventually start dating her.
Anything opinion we have on her is just speculation and conjure. But for me, I won't date a woman who has many single guy "friends". Especially if she doesn't realize or is in denial that they are trying to sleep with her. This is usually with very young attractive girls. She may just be too young for a relationship. Say to yourself "next..."
 
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neardc is offline neardc Post #16  August 7,2009, 1:56pm
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Just noting that this thread was started 7 months ago and the poster has not posted again. I'm not sure why someone decided to resurrect the thread now, but it's unlikely that the OP will see any of the responses at this point.
 
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