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Lives at home, crappy job, no motivation to better himself...he is not ready for marriage, not by a long shot. How could you two possible save for a home and support kids down the road?


If you seriously want to pursue that level of commitment with him, then I agree with Tantalus.You need to have a heart to heart discussion with him about this. Tell him that while you love him dearly, hereally needs tostart making a life for himselfif he's thinking aboutmarrying you sometime in the future.
- January 7th, 2009, 11:23 am
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