Is Having Virtual Sex Cheating?


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somethingdiva_ is offline somethingdiva_ Post #21  March 22,2008, 11:15am
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what the hell is virtual sex? how do you have sex on line? sign me up.
 
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For those of you who don't know what "virtual sex" is, it would be the same as phone sex except through email. Or perhaps if you both have webcams, you can do it that way. Basically, it's trying to arouse the other party. I've participated in it, and had I been in a relationship at the time, I would have definitely felt like I was cheating.I think the key difference between it and porn or a lap dance or even self-pleasure is that there is generally an emotional attachment to the other person.If you are simply trying to make the other person feel good, and your SO is aware of what you are doing, then I think one could participate in virtual sex without it being considered cheating, but I would guess most in a relationship are trying to hide it. That in itself is all the evidence you need.
 
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rainy is offline rainy Post #23  March 22,2008, 1:17pm
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There is that element of "deception" that both intrigues and leads to betrayal. It is too slippery a slope to be not be considered "cheating." Someone will get hurt. Not worth it, is it?
 
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Only if it's not with your parther [img]library/editor/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-surprised.gif[/img]
 
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marisa626 is offline marisa626 Post #25  March 22,2008, 2:36pm
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absolutely and positively YES!!! Ileft a guy because of this... ...[img]library/editor/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-frown.gif[/img]
 
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lucky173,73083 wrote :
Skyhawk, my sentiments exactly! If it can't/wouldn't be done or said in front of your spouse, bf/gf or significant other then it's cheating.
Amen.....No, AMEN!!! That is probably the most perfect description of cheating I have ever heard. You ought to trademark or copyright that description. 'If it can't/wouldn't be done in front of your spouse..." How very true...
 
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Definitely CHEATING! All your thoughts of intimacy should be devoted to the one person you are in a relationship with.
 
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pinkanmaha is offline pinkanmaha Post #28  March 22,2008, 3:49pm
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YES, YES, YES...omg whoever even would wonder??????
 
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pinkanmaha is offline pinkanmaha Post #29  March 22,2008, 3:50pm
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I meant to say who would ever wonder if it was okay...sorry about that. The topic got me going! hehe
 
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Christy2007 is offline Christy2007 Post #30  March 22,2008, 5:13pm
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Yes. Being in a relationship involves an emotional bond. When youfind arousal outside of that relationship, you are cheating. Lasting relationships are built on trust, trust that you will be faithful to each other. You need to be faithful with your mind, body, and heart.
 
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