ResidentWeirdo is offline ResidentWeirdo Post #61  December 11,2008, 3:18pm
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gsugrad,375127 wrote :

What is the difference between going to a party with the intent to have sex with someone else's spouse for "free" and paying a prostitute?


It is the same thing. Wrong and immoral. Do you remember that tiny vow at the wedding?Something about forsaking all others to be with this person. Going to a party with the intent to cheat, even if you think your spouse is okay with it is breaking your vows. There is an emotional bond created during sex. If people think they can just be carefree about it, in the long term I think the relationship will not last.
And does it occur to you that not everyone says the same vows? I'm pagan...my wedding vows didn't include anything about forsaking others.
 
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I have to say I've been in a WMW many years ago and it wasn't an Issue. It was just a sexual experiance that my wife and i enjoyed, for a few years, this was like 30 years ago... but it was an WMW, not a MWM.... and I have to say i don't share well, so had it been the otherway It may have caused issues. I have a very very close friend (Female) that has no issues with sharing herself with two men, or dating several men. My only concern is that with AID's and other things out there, are they not just foolish... But Like with everything.... we can't keep locking everything down just because we want to... or sooner or later you will not be able to even go out your own door without breaking some law...Sorry We can't sit here and judge everyone.... What was the world like in the Caveman were walking this earth....
 
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Good grief, Jacquesne and DoA...you guys are like female versions of Barbie. Can't you say what you want to say without making a sermon of it?
 
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justkateagain,376876 wrote :

Good grief, Jacquesne and DoA...you guys are like female versions of Barbie. Can't you say what you want to say without making a sermon of it?
Jacquesne and DOA, point taken and as I said I'll make disclaimers before any comments.


Kate...Thanks! I feel beaten up!


Ok...off to call my shrink now.
 
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Jacquesne is offline Jacquesne Post #65  December 11,2008, 5:15pm
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justkateagain,376876 wrote :

Good grief, Jacquesne and DoA...you guys are like female versions of Barbie. Can't you say what you want to say without making a sermon of it?
Like, please, I'm talking on my pulpit here? Could you, like, you know, shhhhhhhhh. So, like, God loves you and stuff, and he sees the bad stuff and is like "Whatever, girl!" Then he totally throws the pillow at you, some cute guys come over, and you're all like, "Suweeet." Or something. Does this hat go with my purse?


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justkateagain,376876 wrote :

Good grief, Jacquesne and DoA...you guys are like female versions of Barbie. Can't you say what you want to say without making a sermon of it?
It only seems like a sermon if it's something one doesn't want to hear.


If it's something one wants to hear, it's music to their ears!


But, seriously, I try to support my comments as well sa I can so it's clear what my reasoning is and so I don't deal with someone saying, "That's wrong" because they don't like what I'm saying and don't realize I can support it.
 
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yukon1113,376783 wrote :


But Like with everything.... we can't keep locking everything down just because we want to... or sooner or later you will not be able to even go out your own door without breaking some law...Sorry We can't sit here and judge everyone.... What was the world likewhen the Caveman were walking this earth....


I certainly hope that no one on here was suggesting, nor implying that there should be actual secular laws against swinging/threesomes/groups, etc.!!


But then again, with all of the ANTI-seperation of church and staters/RRR members on here, maybe they were??


I'm NOT "judging", just saying it is not for me personally.


It's funny you mention "Cavemen" since those same regressive, fundie, creationist, biblical literalists do not believe that they ever existed. LOL!
 
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I doubt that I would go for the threesome if I were in a relationship that had long term potential.

If in a less serious relationship or none at all, then I cannot say for sure. Can't say absolutely that if it fell into my lap that I would turn down 2 or more women. I HIGHLY doubt that this will happen. I am not that "lucky". I won't go looking for it though.

 
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