WRONG thing to do...should I pursue it?


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MarkoNC is offline MarkoNC Post #1  October 23,2008, 4:27pm
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I have been contemplating the idea of having a relationship with a married lady.


I know it is wrong and should not even consider something of the kind, but i can't help thinking about it.


I have let pass by several "opportunities" that came my way...


What should I do?


Should I keep on doing what i did so far, which is having a single, separated partner, or try finding a married lady that I could connect with?
 
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cp30 is offline cp30 Post #2  October 23,2008, 4:38pm

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are you serious? you realize you are on an eharmony message board...do you like abuse?
 
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Do you have a particular woman in mind or are you just trolling (i.e. posting a comment that is sure to be attacked)?
 
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MarkoNC, wrote :

I have been contemplating the idea of having a relationship with a married lady.


I know it is wrong and should not even consider something of the kind, but i can't help thinking about it.


I have let pass by several "opportunities" that came my way...


What should I do?


Should I keep on doing what i did so far, which is having a single, separated partner, or try finding a married lady that I could connect with?
Married??? Get your head screwed on straight. Why ruin another relationship for someone else?


Therapy, perhaps?
 
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ChasingDreams is offline ChasingDreams Post #5  October 23,2008, 6:03pm
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Dude.... find your own lady not someone else's. If her and her husband are having issues that is non of your business. Not only that you have NO idea what kind of domino effect that would have.
 
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m8se69 is offline m8se69 Post #7  October 23,2008, 6:15pm
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If you want all sorts of problems and complications, not to mention a possible guilty conscious, I wouldn't do it.
 
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Altair is offline Altair Post #9  October 23,2008, 9:53pm
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It's funny how men, with all the single women around, always want something they can't have. Must be the Pandora's Box Syndrome.
 
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MarkoNC, wrote :

I have been contemplating the idea of having a relationship with a married lady.


I know it is wrong and should not even consider something of the kind, but i can't help thinking about it.


I have let pass by several "opportunities" that came my way...


What should I do?


Should I keep on doing what i did so far, which is having a single, separated partner, or try finding a married lady that I could connect with?
Okay for whatever "thrills" you think you'll get out of doing this, it's not even close to thinking with the appropriate head.


You're taking on a woman whose avoiding issues in her relationship with her husband and choosing an easy out instead of dealing with what's going on. You think it's gonna make things better if you encourage that? You haven't a flying rat's ass clue the damage this can reak both on you and her and her husband and if she has kids? Yeah, this is the worst idea since the corset.


I wouldn't even date someone who is separated. Go find a single woman to date and do yourself and a whole lot of people who stand a chance of getting hurt a favor. Participating in betrayal isn't going to endear you to someone you may get seriously involved with down the road other then this married woman. It looks real bad on a resume'
 
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