MarkoNC is offline MarkoNC Post #1  October 22,2008, 11:09am
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I been living in this neighboorhood for more than five years now, and about a year ago a nice couple moved next door to us. It is an upscale apartment complex and very quiet no known break-ins or anyhting of that nature.


The guy in the couple (who moved next door) leaves about every two weeks out of town for a couple of days. And while he is gone, his gorgeous lady partner is at home most of the time(at least when I am at home also... I work part time three days a week).


It was odd enough and yet pleasant to notice that every time his partenr is out of town, the gorgeous blonde lady leaves her entry door cracked open, no matter what time of the day or night is, sometimes even after 11PM. When her partner is home, the door stays close shut all the time...


I have to admit that I do have a crush on her (and she likes me as well), we have talked on several ocasions, yet I wish I could knowif the door left open like that is an untold invitation. It is a little hard for me to ask her that question bluntly since I do not want togive the impression that I am being a sexual addict or someone like that...


Please reply in case this has happend to you before, or if you could help me out on this...





Ty so much,


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PS: I'm 34 and the lady is 42.
 
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Knock, knock....hi, just saw your door open and was hoping I could borrow a cup of sugar/milk/some butter....hmm, you know, that's pretty odd, I hadn't noticed your door being open all the time like this before...aren't you worried when your husband/significant other is away?


OR, she's airing the place out while he's gone.
 
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I'm not encouraging the relationship, can't stand chetaers, but it is intriguing. I agree to the above, not the sugar...does anyone really do that? I just go to the shop. But you could say...I'm a bit concerned that you leave your door open while your partner is away...it's not safe. See what she says.
 
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If you're curious just ask, can't be any harm in that. Tall gave you some good opening liners.
 
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Hello - THEY live right next door to you? You're asking for an a$$beating.
 
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TrixiPooch,304227 wrote :

Hello - THEY live right next door to you? You're asking for an a$$beating.
LMAO!!!!!
 
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bellson,304190 wrote :

I agree to the above, not the sugar...does anyone really do that? I just go to the shop.
My neighbor (ok, just lucked-out that we're best friends and have been for 20 years) and I do that all the time...froma cup of milk to Black Beans...that's what neighbors are for!
 
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dude...no...sounds like you have seen too many pornos. An invitation would be her smiling at you and giving some indication she is interested in you, maybe even inviting you over.


Maybe she likes fresh air and her boyfriend insists on locking doors at all times. Maybe she lets loose when he is not around. Maybe he is weird about energey efficiency and she loves to be alone and leave all the lights on and the doors open.


She is with this man. I highly doubt she is inviting you over. That would be a really weird way to do it....unless it were a porn.
 
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MarkoNC are you talking about the front door to the house or you talking her bedroom door that you can see from your window or what?
 
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MarkoNC, wrote :

I been living in this neighboorhood for more than five years now, and about a year ago a nice couple moved next door to us. It is an upscale apartment complex and very quiet no known break-ins or anyhting of that nature.


The guy in the couple (who moved next door) leaves about every two weeks out of town for a couple of days. And while he is gone, his gorgeous lady partner is at home most of the time(at least when I am at home also... I work part time three days a week).


It was odd enough and yet pleasant to notice that every time his partenr is out of town, the gorgeous blonde lady leaves her entry door cracked open, no matter what time of the day or night is, sometimes even after 11PM. When her partner is home, the door stays close shut all the time...


I have to admit that I do have a crush on her (and she likes me as well), we have talked on several ocasions, yet I wish I could knowif the door left open like that is an untold invitation. It is a little hard for me to ask her that question bluntly since I do not want togive the impression that I am being a sexual addict or someone like that...


Please reply in case this has happend to you before, or if you could help me out on this...





Ty so much,


Marko





PS: I'm 34 and the lady is 42.







Yeah, go ahead Sparky, have sex with the gorgeous blonde that lives in your complex that is living with or married to another man. That's right up there with "Should I tell my partner I'm having sex with my next door neighbor when he gets back from his trip." Didn't I see that somewhere here?


Leave the crack in the door for the another cat she's looking to drag into that drama. It'll be just your luck if the guy comes home unexpectedly . . . then you'll have the makings of a realSoap Opera . . . or a broken nose . . . you choose. Geeze!
 
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