She's breaking up with me because I am a virgin :-(


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neardc is offline neardc Post #71  September 26,2008, 7:33pm
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cdr4,273511 wrote :

She knew that you were a virgin two months back. The way you speak indicates to me that you are still a virgin. so two months went by without any sex. Of course she dumped you. Who wouldn't?
Really; what is the point of your going around leaving these kinds of posts that appear to be intended merely to be hurtful to people sincerely asking for help? Surely you have better ways to make yourself feel important.
 
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abnoba is offline abnoba Post #72  September 26,2008, 7:42pm

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cdr4,273511 wrote :


She knew that you were a virgin two months back. The way you speak indicates to me that you are still a virgin. so two months went by without any sex. Of course she dumped you. Who wouldn't?


Really; what is the point of your going around leaving these kinds of posts that appear to be intended merely to be hurtful to people sincerely asking for help? Surely you have better ways to make yourself feel important.
It is a legitmate point of view. Lots of people would feel the same way. The OP has, after-all, made it clear he doesn't want to remain a virgin. It seems like his girl friend wanted sex and was sending out pretty clear messages that this is what she wants. He does nothing. Lots of girls would respond exactly as she did and leave him. Maybe the OP needs some honest assessment of his dilemma and not some sugar coated version.
 
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abnoba,273573 wrote :

Maybe the OP needs some honest assessment of his dilemma and not some sugar coated version.
Nah. This is eHA where coddling is the norm.
 
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neardc,273555 wrote :

cdr4,273511 wrote :


She knew that you were a virgin two months back. The way you speak indicates to me that you are still a virgin. so two months went by without any sex. Of course she dumped you. Who wouldn't?


Really; what is the point of your going around leaving these kinds of posts that appear to be intended merely to be hurtful to people sincerely asking for help? Surely you have better ways to make yourself feel important.
They may appear that way to you but I intended to be helpful. How much more hints would the poor girl have to drop? I know that having sex is looked down upon around here, but the dude needs to know that there is a real world outside of eHA.
 
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abnoba,273542 wrote :

To each their own. Some guys are worried over whether their girl friend has had other guys and you worry about whether they have graduated from high school. Well I guess different strokes for...
Translation: Some guys are insecure and I would rather have good sex.
 
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abnoba is offline abnoba Post #76  September 26,2008, 7:54pm

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abnoba,273542 wrote :


To each their own. Some guys are worried over whether their girl friend has had other guys and you worry about whether they have graduated from high school. Well I guess different strokes for...


Translation: Some guys are insecure and I would rather have good sex.
To coin a now trite comparison you are comparing apples and oranges.
 
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Do you really believe that people do not have a responsibility to educate themselves?
 
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abnoba is offline abnoba Post #78  September 26,2008, 8:06pm

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cdr4,273606 wrote :

Do you really believe that people do not have a responsibility to educate themselves?
I believe that all of us sometime need a teacher to go further in our journey. I also believe that each of us is, at times, a learner and a teacher. So if you find yourself being called upon to be a teacher do so with a good heart. You too have, I am sure, needed at some time a teacher.
 
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cdr4,273580 wrote :

neardc,273555 wrote :


cdr4,273511 wrote :


She knew that you were a virgin two months back. The way you speak indicates to me that you are still a virgin. so two months went by without any sex. Of course she dumped you. Who wouldn't?


Really; what is the point of your going around leaving these kinds of posts that appear to be intended merely to be hurtful to people sincerely asking for help? Surely you have better ways to make yourself feel important.


They may appear that way to you but I intended to be helpful. How much more hints would the poor girl have to drop? I know that having sex is looked down upon around here, but the dude needs to know that there is a real world outside of eHA.
It's rather amusing that someone with tenfold the number of posts as the OP (made in the space of only a few weeks, no less) feels that he has to point out to the OP that there is "a real world outside of eHA." The OP isn't the one spending all of his time here; nor has he given the impression that he hasn't been engaged in the realworld or that he "looks down" on having sex.


Your post was rude and hurtful and, given how many other of your posts seem to take that tone, that does not appear to be accidental.
 
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abnoba is offline abnoba Post #80  September 26,2008, 8:21pm

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neardc,273641 wrote :







Your post was rude and hurtful and, given how many other of your posts seem to take that tone, that does not appear to be accidental.
It didn't strike me as rude or hurtful. It seemed honest, perhaps blunt, but honest. But no doubt your opinion probably holds more weight around here than his, let alone mine. So...[img]library/editor/plugins/emotions/img/smiley-smile.gif[/img]
 
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