She's breaking up with me because I am a virgin :-(


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Sarah is offline Sarah Post #31  September 26,2008, 10:28am
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ThePriestess,272756 wrote :

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nancymargrit,272734 wrote :


Instructional videos? Aren't these good only if you've got someone to learn the lessons with you? It's so much better doing these things with a partner; doesn't matter if the partner is experienced or not.


Not necessarily.


I play in a band, this band usually has 4 instruments and they all have a part to play in the music. However, I need to practice "my part" and know it inside and out...


Didn't we have a 100+ page thread on this topic recently?
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Dear HurrMark,


Have you ever considered changing your paradigm and considering how very fortunate you are that she did break up with you?


She sounds extremely shallow not to mention wishy-washy. In your other thread, you just had mentioned you and she were now exclusive and faster than the blink of an eye, she's now broken off with you? That's too ridiculous for words!


She doesn't sound like the most stableperson on the planet. . . . I think she did you a tremendous favor.


You need to reframe the way you're looking at the situation. You came out ahead here.


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ThePriestess,272798 wrote :

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Additionally, there's a double-standard for men and women with women most definitely coming out on the losing end with the name-calling. Why, our society has any number of negative words for women who sleep with men outside of marriage, but hardly any for men.


You don't think "stud" is a equivalent to the alternatives?
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nancymargrit,272804 wrote :

ThePriestess,272798 wrote :


javajava5,272772 wrote :


Additionally, there's a double-standard for men and women with women most definitely coming out on the losing end with the name-calling. Why, our society has any number of negative words for women who sleep with men outside of marriage, but hardly any for men.


You don't think "stud" is a equivalent to the alternatives?


Add "gigolo" to the list.
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Sarah,272802 wrote :

ThePriestess,272756 wrote :


Sarah,272748 wrote :


nancymargrit,272734 wrote :


Instructional videos? Aren't these good only if you've got someone to learn the lessons with you? It's so much better doing these things with a partner; doesn't matter if the partner is experienced or not.


Not necessarily.


I play in a band, this band usually has 4 instruments and they all have a part to play in the music. However, I need to practice "my part" and know it inside and out...


Didn't we have a 100+ page thread on this topic recently?


Whatchu talkin 'bout TP
Sorry for answering for you Priestess - it was the thread on "Do Men Need Porn?"or something like that. I can't remember now exactly where it is.
 
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illustrator,272768 wrote :

When it comes to sex, let the woman get on top so she can set the pace that she likes.


You just lie there and let her do all the work. [img]library/editor/plugins/emotions/img/smiley-laughing.gif[/img]
What if I just want to lie there and let him do all the work?
 
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nancymargrit,272811 wrote :

illustrator,272768 wrote :


When it comes to sex, let the woman get on top so she can set the pace that she likes.


You just lie there and let her do all the work. [img]library/editor/plugins/emotions/img/smiley-laughing.gif[/img]


What if I just want to lie there and let him do all the work?
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illustrator,272807 wrote :

nancymargrit,272804 wrote :


ThePriestess,272798 wrote :


javajava5,272772 wrote :


Additionally, there's a double-standard for men and women with women most definitely coming out on the losing end with the name-calling. Why, our society has any number of negative words for women who sleep with men outside of marriage, but hardly any for men.


You don't think "stud" is a equivalent to the alternatives?


Add "gigolo" to the list.


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Sorry for answering for you Priestess - it was the thread on "Do Men Need Porn?"or something like that. I can't remember now exactly where it is.
Last count is 122 pages in "Porn Really Necessary for a Man?" under the catagory DATING.
 
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I agree with those who said she used your virginity as an excuse to break up with you. So be it: no relationship comes with any guarantees.


I am not a virgin, but I don't think I would break up with a guy just because he is still a virgin, even if he was 30! Now if the guy thought that being a virgin made him some sort of a hero or a moral champion, then, I would most likely dorp him. But it would have nothing to do with his virginity and a lot to do with the fact that he was a self righteous jerk.
 
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