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very interesting. this may save a relationship that is very important to me. i hope i can right the wrongs based on this article! Thanks for a fresh perspective.
- October 5th, 2008, 08:28 pm
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FIRST OF ALL I HAVE NOT BEEN IN ANY RELATIONSHIP BEFORE.BUT I HAVE AN IDEA.AND I BELIEVE THAT FROM HERE I WILL LEARN MORE.REASONS TO BREAK UP ARE :WHEN HIM/SHE IS NOT DOING WHAT HE/SHE IS SUPPOSE TO DO.BEEN UNFAITHFULL CAN ALSO CAUSE THAT THAT MANY OF ALL ARE NOT CONTENTED WITH WHAT WE HAVE AND IT HAS BEEN A MAJOR PROBLEM IN A RELATIONSHIP.WHEN LOVE IS NOT EQUAL COS I KNOW THAT TO LOVE IS NOT THE THE PROBLEM BUT TO BE LOVED BACK.
- October 9th, 2008, 03:48 am
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when your in a relationship you have to know how to separate your family know who your dating let your girlfriend know she is just as important and dont fell she comes second or your making choices
- November 5th, 2008, 02:11 pm
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I have found it is near impossible to get over a break up, especially when both people have agreed to so many possibilities. Untill, the moment of realisation sets in , & you remember the reasons why you fell in love in the first place. When the person you are in love with is just themselves, you are not in love with them for being with you, it is for being the person you fell in love with.....But, from my own personal experience=real love will never sleep.& will always reflect each & every day...
- November 24th, 2008, 03:25 pm
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Hii


It is very true about this coz I've been experiencing through my boyfreind.


NO# 4 You don't have time for a relationship..Every time I commit myself to work and have no time to discuss things with my boyfreind.


Thank you for the 8 reasons.


Byeeeeeeeeeeee


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- November 24th, 2008, 09:43 pm
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Hii


It is very true about this coz I've been experiencing through my boyfreind.


NO# 4 You don't have time for a relationship..Every time I commit myself to work and have no time to discuss things with my boyfreind.


Thank you for the 8 reasons.


Byeeeeeeeeeeee


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- November 24th, 2008, 09:43 pm
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Hi!!


This is SOOOOO true and I think that of all the psychological stuff I read about love and relationships it's the first one I completely agree with. It's all true from 1 to 8. Just when I started to think that maybeI got it all wrong about love and being in a steady relationship and that was why I'm still single at 33 yo. Thank you so much!! Now I know I only met guys whowere looking for something else than love, a girlfriend(like a mother,a safety belt when they're drowning in their problems ... etc).


Thanks again
- November 25th, 2008, 05:17 am
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diannia01 wrote :

When you fall in love with someone who is not of your own culture,please, remember that you have to take into consideration their religious point of view before you say,"I do"! That was a bad mistake that Imade with my first husband. I thought everything was going to be fine, until he started pushing his point of view on me constantly after our first year of marriage. Regardless of how much love there was between us (I married him twice during our four years together!),there just wasn't enough to make it work from two points of view religiously...in his opinion.

As a Cambodian man,I am in the same boat of you now. My wife isAnglo-Saxon, shebelong to a Christian group call GOSPEL HALL they are very very strick same as OPEN BRETHEREN. My wife is an Angel to me and highly respect as a primary school teacher for nearly 20years. We lived in her parent house, her farther is scotish and he is an elderly in this GOSPEL HALL, but myfather in-law have a depression mental illness long long time ago, we had a lots of fight not with mywife but with my father in-lawandwe can not affordto buy a house for our own. I am very stressful we have been marriage for six yeares already, we have one son and two beautiful daughters. My wife is so attached to the Lord Jesus Christ, she loves to death about Jesus and the GOSPEL HALL, howevershe realised for a long time that her father have mental illness problems but don't know what to do, she can cope with it because we have no money to move out. I consider that I live in hell at the moment but I do not want to BREAL UP for I love my wife and my children very much.


I need advise from any body out there please.


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- November 25th, 2008, 09:52 am
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it is very hard to accept that your partner is no more happy even when you are arround.

- November 27th, 2008, 11:48 am
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this is very better reality but we have to face it because i am married and going through the same .

- November 27th, 2008, 01:01 pm
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