What's the worst thing a person can say on a first date?


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Gr8Guyn2008 is offline Gr8Guyn2008 Post #21  September 13,2008, 9:09am
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Newsflash to the men.......we don't care about looks nearly as much as we do about confidence.
That is a blanket statement that does not cover all women.
 
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1.-"You and I would make beautiful kids together!


2.-You would be a great wife, I know I am going to want to marry you someday!


3.- You are so beautiful (repeated at 30 to 60 second intervals for the better part of an hour).


I had just moved to a new town, and was looking to make new friends. The guy that made the three statements above was a vendor for the company I worked for; he had inquired about me, and one day a group of coworkers and I were taken to lunch by his company. He and I struck up a conversation, I told him that I was new in town and was looking forward to making new friends. He chimed in with that is great, I would like to be your friend and show you around town. We spoke on the phone a couple of times ( nice and friendly, I continued to emphasized that I was only looking for friends). One night he called to go out to dinner "as friends" he said mockingly; so I agreed to go as friends " Dutch". I met him at the restaurant, we sat down got a drink, ordered our meals, and preceeded to talk, at first it was friendly, I again sounding like a broken record told him that I was looking to make friends and that I was not looking for a boyfriend or an intimate relationship with anyone. Not long after the food arrived he started in with the above... I was like where is the Candid Camera???, there wasn't one, this guy was serious. This was one of the creepiest dinners I have encountered. It took me years to go back to the Cheesecake Factory after that one.
 
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Gr8Guyn2008,256595 wrote :

tishsuz, wrote :


Newsflash to the men.......we don't care about looks nearly as much as we do about confidence.


That is a blanket statement that does not cover all women.
The women who go out with you don't care much about confidence, huh?
 
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"I love you" is often not a good phrase to toss out on a first date.


I learned that from HIMYM.
 
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jayjay,256561 wrote :

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I forgot to silent my cell phone and it was ringing as we were waiting for our food in a restaurant. Then he said: ".. and who was that??" Man .. none of your freakin' business!

How rude of him! I would have told him that the day he pays my cell phone bill is the day he can ask me who I talk to. I can't stand when people do that!


Or how about answering "Oh, that was my husband. He heard I was here with you and he's on his way."
LMAO .. !! I should have!!
 
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I had a guy complain on the first date that he had to work with women. he felt strongly that women should not work outside of the home and they should be provided for by men. I asked him, "what if a woman's husband dies or runs out on her?" He grudgingly acknoleged that maybe then the woman could get a job as a secretary but certainly not a professional position as those should be reserved for guys that pay the bills for their families. I asked him if he felt that widows and their children should be limited to poverty because a secretary's salary does not pay all of the bills and he didn't really have a response. I then pointed out that my dad died when I was 4 and my mom was faced with that very situation. Even then, he didn't back track. There was no second date.
 
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ThePriestess,256692 wrote :

"I love you" is often not a good phrase to toss out on a first date.


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--------------> Wasted breath on Paris Hilton
 
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6dle899,256778 wrote :

ThePriestess,256692 wrote :


"I love you" is often not a good phrase to toss out on a first date.


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--------------> Wasted breath on Paris Hilton
LOL 6DLE, but she's such a ditz you may be wrong there. At least if your goals are short term. [img]library/editor/plugins/emotions/img/smiley-laughing.gif[/img]
 
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"I need to make a quick call, that was the STD clinic and it didn't sound good."


"Ummm, can we maybe go somewhere else? I owe those guys staring at us a lot of money."


"Oh, that guy staring at us is just my pimp."


"Can you put this stuff in your pocket, if I get busted again it's my third strike."


"Oh yeah, those are just track marks."


"I'll be right back, I don't remember if I rolled the windows down in the car for my kids."


"Yes, that is my adam's apple, I haven't completely finished the procedure."


"I hope you don't mind, but I brought my dad along as a chaperone (yeah I know I can't spell)."


"Are you paying? Cause if not I might need to borrow some money."


I could go on and on. And yes, I made these up.
 
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