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How much do you weigh?


How much do you make?


You didn't expect me to pay for dinner, did you?
- September 28th, 2008, 07:09 pm
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jamesp81 wrote :

rockcrusher wrote :

Maybe it’s how you look at them or act disinterested and I’m not trying to criticize you I’m just saying. Got to disagree with you on the looks part you may not go by looks yourself but most women do judge a guy right away on looks, I can tell you that from all the 200 or so that closed communication with me before ever getting to show any confidence or personality. Attractive women will tolerate a piece of trash guy as long as he is “cute” I have seen it too many times for that to not be true. The rest of us get instant rejection and are ridiculed for little things again those “cute” guys get away with.


You got that right. I've come to the point that when women say they don't judge on looks the way men do, I simply don't believe it. My list of closed matches is pretty compelling proof of that.
For the record? You're way younger than me (I'm 55) but you're a cute guy. If you were in my age range, I'd be interested!


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- September 28th, 2008, 07:12 pm
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When I was in my early 20's a guy actually said the following to me on a first date. It was so unbelievably moronic, it is etched in my brain! [He had asked me out for a "drink or two" and some chinese food.]What can I say, I was very young and naive...


Can we take your car? I amtrying to save gas. AND: I forgot my wallet. I hope you remembered to bring yours.


At the end of the meal, he thought I left too large of a tip, and pocketed the difference. I was so shocked that I didn't know what to say. I drove him back to his car. Then he had the nerve to want to "make out" at the end of the evening. I started to laugh and just said: Are you Kidding me??


Lose my number and get out of my car.


Again, young and naive...It goes without saying, we never saw each other again.


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I got really bad gas today that'll be something


- September 28th, 2008, 10:39 pm
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I had just arrived at the restraunt to meet my date, he walks up to meet me at my car, and as we are nearing the door he says "why don't we get a drink, I just ate and I'm really full the food here is great!"


Yes, it happened...
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petalpusher wrote :
The date I met for the first time looked at me and in a self indulgent tone said:


"Is this it?" .......


He talked all about himself ,nonstop of course, then his girlfriend shows up. Priceless
I am speechless. Can he be more of a lout?

I had a date with a dude who decided that I was going to have to kiss him. He moved in for it, but I politely told him I was not comfortable doing so (we had only known each other for an hour). He hounded me until I told him that I was not attracted to him (after that move), and it was not going to work out between us. He had the nerve to continue calling and emailing me trying to make me feel guilty for having a problem with kissing him.
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