Where did all the "NICE" girls go...?


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derickz07 is offline derickz07 Post #1  September 2,2008, 10:02am
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Maybe the topic title is too jaded or one sided but I bet it gets some great responses either way. lol . So back to the question,...Are there any nice girls left? I am not going to bleed my heart on this "blog" or whatever the hell you call it, saying how I am such a "nice guy" or "why do nice guys always finish last?" LOL. However, If I get asked "what do you drive?" one more time when meeting someone I will scream!Maybe its just where I live (Vegas), but each girl I meet is as real as the barbie doll. Plastic,fake, superficial, self-centered, conceited, and just plain rude. Then they have the nerve to give the disgusting look when I tell them I am an engineer and I drive a F-150.Guess thatsnot as cool as a club owner or manager who most likely LEASES the Mercedes SL 500 to impress. You know, the place where these girlswanna be able to go to that weekend without having to pay the cover or a drink all night, just because their breasts say so. Anyway, my point is that there has to be attractive professional women, with their own goals, drive, motivation and ambition that are seeking the same things in their counterpart. But are they"NICE!?" Kindness mixed with a little bit of humble-pie can turn any woman from a "5" or a "6" to a "9" or a "10" in most men's rating book. That sounds so cliched and rude but I am justmaking a point. We really don't rate you ladies..... LOL . So that being said, I open up the floor. What say you? Where have all the nice girls gone....?
 
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...things seem to have gotten quiet around here.

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I think there are plenty of them out there (though just because they are 'nice' doesn't mean they're right for you). I never get asked questions like what kind of car I drive. Part of the problem could be where you live....but still, I have to think that part of the problem is alsothat you are selecting these women. The women you're describing to me seem pretty easy to spot upfront. I'd suggest you reevaluate who you're going on dates with in the first place.
 
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It would seem that since you are an engineer in Las Vegas that maybe you should be looking for girls in the parts of town that the nice guys live and frequent instead of the places where the plastic Barbie Doll girls hang out.
 
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good advice, however, the deep and meaningful 29 dimensions have selected a few of these girls for me! and the "what do you drive" question does sound a little bit outrageous but I have seriously been asked that on more than one occasion by women that you might not think are the types that would act that way. I don't attract or select Vegas "club hoes." As you are right,.. most of those women are easy to spot from a mile away.
 
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derickz07,243175 wrote :

good advice, however, the deep and meaningful 29 dimensions have selected a few of these girls for me! and the "what do you drive" question does sound a little bit outrageous but I have seriously been asked that on more than one occasion by women that you might not think are the types that would act that way. I don't attract or select Vegas "club hoes." As you are right,.. most of those women are easy to spot from a mile away.
WHAT? The 29 magical dimensions didn't work? Blasphemy! [img]library/editor/plugins/emotions/img/smiley-surprised.gif[/img] Yes....I expect it could be a little more difficult to spot these women online. Maybe exchanging a few more emails/phone conversations would reveal their personality. Good luck.
 
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dude....you are driving a ford. No wonder the question makes you uncomfortable.
 
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jayjay,243163 wrote :

I think there are plenty of them out there (though just because they are 'nice' doesn't mean they're right for you). I never get asked questions like what kind of car I drive. Part of the problem could be where you live....but still, I have to think that part of the problem is alsothat you are selecting these women. The women you're describing to me seem pretty easy to spot upfront. I'd suggest you reevaluate who you're going on dates with in the first place.
That's what I said just not as well.


I have never been asked directly what kind of car I drive but I have had a number of dates ask which car was mine as I was walking her to her car. FYI I usually drive my 2000 Honda Accord though for one date I did drive my antique pick-up truck.


Maybe the reason I never get a second date is because I don't drive the "right" kind of car. I really have a problem driving a car that cost more than my house.
 
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-and as far as places the "nice" girls frequent. Good advice as well. However, you must remember this is Vegas. Even nice girls come here and get crazy with the mentality of "what happens in Vegas,...Stays in Vegas." Even if they live here. Part of the reason I wanted to Try EH was because I was tired of taking out women, that I would find out on date #2 or #3, that were married and just needed a little "fun." Now this ranges from young college grads in their twenties who recently move out here, to local women in their late 30s and everything in between. Maybe JayJay was right when "it could be the town you're in." All I know is that the attitude, and conceitedness is so outrageous here, that if you can deal with these girls, you can meet women anywhere. I find that when I need to escape and visit another city, it is incredibly easy to meet people because you can actually say "hi" without fear of running into that invisible brick wall. Unless you flash the black AM EX card. LOL.
 
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i don't recall ever asking a guy what he drives. I DID borrow a friends' car for a date once. Yes, it was petty, superficial, and a hell of a lot of fun to see the guys' face when I hit the button to chirp the car.
 
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Trust me, it's the town. Vegas is an amazing town where the size of your wallet, car you drive, and house you are losing to foreclosure seems to be one of the major driving forces. A friend told me after I'd been here about a year that it was time to realize I was in the town of 'fake t*ts and real a*holes' I'm sure you can agree with that analogy. Good luck on your search as it's just as miserable looking from the female side of the fence.
 
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