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Nerves aside, getting to know someone new can come with mixed signals, a roller coaster of thoughts and a flurry of emotions. Look for these 5 telltale signs that can indicate that you and your date are well on your way to a second date.
- August 1st, 2007, 01:00 am
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this is great advice and would like to thank you for this information.
- August 1st, 2007, 02:18 pm
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I THINK A FIRST DATE IS REALLY A UNIQUE TIME FOR BOTH OF THE INDIVIDUALS. JUST BE YOURSELF AND IS THE CHEMISTRY IS THERE IT WILL BE OKAY.
- August 1st, 2007, 06:07 pm
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I think you need two dates to fairly evaluate someone, because the first date can be so nerve racking. I almost did not go on a second date with my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years, I talked too much and he was quiet. My friends convinced me to give it a second chance and it was the best advice. He is the most wonderfull man I have ever met!
- August 1st, 2007, 08:46 pm
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Thanks for these great pointers. It's been a long time since I have been on the dating scene (married for 36 years) and these reminders will be extremely helpful.
- August 1st, 2007, 08:58 pm
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Well said and vey good advice. Just being relaxed and being yourself makes for an enjoyable first meeting even if it does not generate the chemisty for a long term relationship. If nothing else, a good friendship could evolve. My first meeting was very good!!!
- August 1st, 2007, 09:31 pm
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Brillant advice. Thank you.
- August 1st, 2007, 09:51 pm
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I wish I would have read this 2 weeks ago. It probably would have slowed me down. I was so excited to get such a cute match and one that was communicating with me also. I am positive I over reacted. It has just been a long long time since I have had a man I have cared in my life. It just seemed to me that he cared about me also because he said he was interested.......etc, ....... I probably said too much and too soon. I think my emotions and the way I felt got the upper hand and overran my reasoning and common sense. Now I feel very sad and don't want this to happen again. How can I prevent it?
- August 1st, 2007, 09:59 pm
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I didn't even have a date with him, just the emailing and his information and picture thrilled me.
- August 1st, 2007, 10:02 pm
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I appreciated the positive nature of the tips - with the red flags - also helped me see what I might do that causes a 'great ending' or a 'red flag'. Thanks.
- August 1st, 2007, 10:25 pm
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