5 Telltale Signs of Great First Dates


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3934Jamie is offline 3934Jamie Post #21  August 1,2007, 11:00pm
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Great advice...it's reassuring to know that some of these feelings are okay to have.
 
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3937Gina is offline 3937Gina Post #22  August 1,2007, 11:05pm
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Im with Karen...I have been trying E Harmony now for three months and not one single"meet for coffee" chatting is going well...but no one seems to be up for what this dating and meeting new people is all about. Mother always said, "you should never call boys" Did anyone elses mother say that??? Nonetheless, it would be nice to meet someone who is willing to show his intentions and make this online dating be a possibility.
 
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Thanks, eHarmony, as always, for great relationship advice.
 
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3949marie is offline 3949marie Post #24  August 1,2007, 11:40pm
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There are so many emotions going through someones head during the first date and not to mention how tense the first date can be. I think there should be two dates to really see if the chemistry is there, your not giving the person a fair chance if you do not ask for a second date. After all there had to be some kind of a connection while emailing or talking on the phone.
 
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I appreciated the thought behind this article, but I believe one would be in order which looks at the other side of the coin. I've been told countless times that I did everything right and that I was a wonderful guy, and yet 90+% of the time, I do not get a second date. I'm always very respectful and do not overstep my bounds, and I do not pressure the woman in any way. I always call her within two days to tell her that I enjoyed our time together, and most of the time my messages go unreturned or I get a very generic "I didn't feel the chemistry", regardless of how well the date went. I think an article that addresses this would be very helpful to those of us that are stuck in this situation. Thanks.
 
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3960Bob is offline 3960Bob Post #26  August 2,2007, 12:11am
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This talks more abt how it can be a bad date and how to escape out of the relationship. Lol you can not overly concern abt the red sign. You have to focus more on green sign.
 
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What an excellent article!

I've had two lunch dates from eHarmony contacts; the first one, most of the attraction was on his side, the second one was the opposite.

From my experience, I'd say it's best not to invest too much emotionally in any online emailing relationship. When you meet, real life may be very different. At eHarmony, you get chances that you wouldn't otherwise have. That's a GOOD thing.

We all hope for something wonderful, that's human nature; and none of us knows what's just around the corner.
 
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...note to Karen...maybe you should try being the pursuer...don't always think in the traditional way...this is 2007...times change[have changed..in fact..]...a man likes to know he's being pursued,too..good column,good pointers..some stuff to really think about
 
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according to the five signs, we'er doing great. My first was at a home improvement store and dinner. He's like someone I've known forever. Very little nervousness. Laughter all the time. The article is very encouraging.
 
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