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Emme, wrote :


Ok, I admit it. I have some extra pounds on me but I'm active. I think I'm a nice person. I'm funny, smart, and am just looking for a normal guy without too much baggage. Perfect bodies, rich guys, etc. need not apply. Why is it so danged hard to meet a nice man????


Hi Emme,


Give yourself a break. You are a nice, beatiful lady with a great heart.


You just have not found the guy that is deserving of you. You will meet him before you think and when you least expect it.


I always enjoy your insightful posts.


John
oops, typing too quick. I misspelled Beautiful.
- August 21st, 2008, 09:49 pm
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[Once I was attacked I reacted harshly as is my right to choose to do when I am being attacked. It's not my fault you lack a concept of taking this whole situation in and considering it from that perspective. I'm not saying I'm a victim one bit, I chose to react harshly and cut on some folks after they gave me guff. I'm okay with that.


You want to talk about an attitude that sucks, all you've done is attack me. Time to get down off your high horse. Good job using an analogy that describes you to a T. I don't pretend to be nice or to be the best in any of these areas, I just state the truth and I will attack back at those who attack me, make no mistake about it. At least I don't suppose that I'm squeaky clean like you.
Matt 5:39-48


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- August 21st, 2008, 10:04 pm
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Another fabulous catch-22. I can't find a relationship because I'm not already in one. Great.


Who needs a relationship when there is so much free material on the internet?


I cannot believe you do not have to beat women off with a stick...
That's not a stick ...
- August 21st, 2008, 10:30 pm
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Emme wrote :


Another fabulous catch-22. I can't find a relationship because I'm not already in one. Great.


Who needs a relationship when there is so much free material on the internet?


I cannot believe you do not have to beat women off with a stick...


That's not a stick ...
- August 21st, 2008, 10:32 pm
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Not everyone has a Bible handy. Could you include the verse next time so we can see what you are talking about? My guess is its the stone throwing one, but no idea, its been years since I read that thing cover to cover.
- August 21st, 2008, 10:34 pm
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kiki87042 wrote :

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Cecd wrote :


ThePriestess wrote :


Emme wrote :


Another fabulous catch-22. I can't find a relationship because I'm not already in one. Great.


Who needs a relationship when there is so much free material on the internet?


I cannot believe you do not have to beat women off with a stick...


That's not a stick ...


I think TP's women would enjoy that (being beaten with a stick) ;->


- August 21st, 2008, 10:36 pm
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Or at least his stick
- August 21st, 2008, 10:37 pm
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Emme, wrote :

Ok, I admit it. I have some extra pounds on me but I'm active. I think I'm a nice person. I'm funny, smart, and am just looking for a normal guy without too much baggage. Perfect bodies, rich guys, etc. need not apply. Why is it so danged hard to meet a nice man????
It's because there are too few good men out there... and too many boys in men's bodies. Abusers, users and losers. Then quiet often the guys whom are suppose to be great are too full of their own self-righteousness, pride and ma-cheese-mo. Sad deal all around.



Keep your chin up Emme. You're great! Keep fishing with the right bait. The real deal will come along and bite ya. ;-)
- August 21st, 2008, 11:03 pm
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Not everyone has a Bible handy. Could you include the verse next time so we can see what you are talking about? My guess is its the stone throwing one, but no idea, its been years since I read that thing cover to cover.
Basically it is the turn the other cheek passage.
- August 21st, 2008, 11:24 pm
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vapsman88 wrote :

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Not everyone has a Bible handy. Could you include the verse next time so we can see what you are talking about? My guess is its the stone throwing one, but no idea, its been years since I read that thing cover to cover.


Basically it is the turn the other cheek passage.
Thanks. I really should have seen if there is an internet Bible, cause I'm sure there has to be, if not its a genius idea.
- August 21st, 2008, 11:43 pm
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