After a good first date, how long do you wait to call?


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guitarchik816 is offline guitarchik816 Post #71  July 5,2008, 2:33pm
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DetroitDon,61437 wrote :

Three days, unless the third day falls on a Friday or Saturday, then it would become Sunday.


If you want to send a quick "I got home OK" email that night, keep it short and end it with a "I'll call you soon" - then call on the third day.


If something genuinely odd or exciting happens: "My dog had puppies, I'm on the evening news tonight............" you can call sooner than the three days without looking like a desperate fool.
Yeah this would drive me nuts. Don't do this lol.


Girls LIKE it when guys show interest. If they're on a dating site, odds are, you aren't the only person that they're getting to know.. playing with her head and operating on timetables to try and save face does nothing but give a chance to the guy who wasn't worried about letting her know that he wanted to see her again.
 
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jojoo1960 is offline jojoo1960 Post #72  January 25,2009, 9:02pm
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i had a date and it want very good i called her the next day but she didn't pick... what should i do?
 
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Venus0517 is offline Venus0517 Post #73  February 17,2009, 10:37pm
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MW77009, wrote :

This is a question that is piggybacked on another post. Lets say that you go out on a first eharmony date, like the person, and things seem to be jelling. When should you call them? The normal rule of thumb I have heard is 2-3 days. Some say you should wait as much as 9-10 days! Other say you wait until the next day. I usually follow the normal rule of thumb. What do other people think and do?







Hey everyone, I thought I would jump in on this topic. I had a V-Day date this past weekend that went excellent and still have not heard from the guy and I very much dislike that he is playing games with me now.
 
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My first eharmony date was with a Lawyer guy. He had a nice Porsche, very well dressed, tall and handsome. But he had the most intrusive personality I have ever seen! During the first 30 minutes of our date, he asked me how many properties my parents own outside the US, and if they paid cash upfront for them or if they financed them! He wanted to know now that my father is retired, does he just sit at home or if he has a sourse of income!!!! Then he asked me to tell him about my past relationships! I told him that I’m feeling interrogated, but he wouldn’t drop it!!!!
Then he told me that he had a good time and asked me if it’s ok to call me in a few days to ask me out again. I told him yes, it’s ok. But he never called! Must have been the body language.. :- ) I closed the match after 4 days!
 
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