Depends on the use. If it is a recreational thing, or a social thing I have no issue. If it is an addiction or a "need" then it would be a deal breaker.
I have no issue at all with Pot, though I don't smoke it.....I vaporize.
My ex husband was a regular user of marijuana. He had back injuries, and I felt bad for that so I looked the other way. I would consider myself for legalization, but it's only going to be truly legal when the federal government and states can agree. As for dating someone who uses it? Absolutely not. It's a turn off for me. It's not okay to break the law- I now work in a field where I am required by my state to report any illegal activity I happen to see. I can't stand the way it smells, and smoking anything is a general turn off for me. People who use marijuana are similar to people who drink too much or have some other bad habit- they are self-medicating and covering up a larger issue. My ex husband had back problems, but he also had anger problems and depression, and I think he was using his back problems as an excuse to use for other reasons. I want to be with someone who lives a healthy life, and doesn't feel the need to support violence on our borders by self-medicating.
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Somebody told me
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