A true story and then some.

A decent German girl early 40s, blonde, attractive was seduced over time by a ghetto type with surface good presentation skills, good English and even German. Enticements went on for a couple months with porn being forwarded in email conversations. She resisted his advances which were heavily sexual. The attraction was the language which she missed using. But she was vulnerable for her need for attention. She was void of prejudices following the heavy propaganda in Germany on that subject. Felt she had to prove a point. The emails sent to her included video of himself stripping. Eventually she went to his digs in a low rent district downtown San Diego. She did not use to even touch alcohol, was a vegetarian, never did drugs. He kissed her with a whiff of marijuana in his lungs and got her hooked. First time ever for her. Then the wine, then the marijuana direct from a roach, pretty soon he was video taping her without her knowledge while having sex. Then he used those photos and vids to post on specialised swinger sites for a lesbian lover and persuaded her to have sex with a woman. The German woman has an 11 year old boy. She started to neglect him, stopped working and became addicted to the forcible sex and drugs. He also "invested' her money. She never saw that money again. When she tried to leave several times he forcibly took her car keys away and locked her in the bedroom. He threw her on the bed and raped her. When she finally went home and no longer took his calls after she hook up with her old boy-friend he started to send everyone she knew pictures of himself getting satisfied with her by email including her grand mother in Germany. What a shock. He hassled her on the phone and her parents several times a day when she fled to Germany and also to friends here in the US. he threatened her friends by phone, painting her as a prostitute, which was his eventual plan. Turns out he is wanted in Germany where he was less of a business man and a male striper in the red light district in Hamburg. He also has a criminal record in San Diego and in Wisconsin. This caused her ex husband to ask for full custody of her son. She studied for a year to be a massage therapist and was denied a license.

THIS IS WHAT MARIJUANA CAN DO. People who use drugs to get a high or be sociable are losers inside. They are weak and preoccupied with own pleasure. Not a good match. Say no to drugs. Don't be a loser. Most of my attorney friends in Orange County were casual drug users and not just the Democrat ones! One of these younger attorneys (40s then) stole money from the entry fees for a large singles party I had organised at the Irvine Marriott one Xmas season.
THAT IS WHAT MARIJUANA CAN DO. But it does not do that alone. It goes with the mind set. One supports the other.
My roommate at Berkeley was a chemistry honour student. Son of a pastor. Met an older girl then went into marijuana and never showed up for the finals. Last I heard many years ago was that he was making large stones into little stones
THAT IS WHAT MARIJUANA CAN DO. The Nirvana can be had in many ways. But that one is an easy and destructive one. Not he only one though.