roundkicker is offline roundkicker Post #1  July 20,2008, 5:21am
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a man asked if i'd like to talk on the phone and then possibly meet. i said yes, we agreed on a day for the call. i called him and he didn't pick up the phone. that was yesterday. strange? what now. i suspect nothing, as in, i do nothing and move along. weird though,right?
 
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And he never called back or messaged you? Move on and don't look back...
 
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Mia21972 is offline Mia21972 Post #3  July 20,2008, 11:02am

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ahh the telephone, separates the men from the boys for sure...
 
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Move on. You agreed upon a time and date and he stood you up. You deserve better than that.
 
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If he has your phone number and is interested, he will call. I assume you left a message when you called.Many men can be flaky like this.
 
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Did you leave a message? Was it his name on the voicemail?





lol at Mia - I get more nervous about the phonecall than from the 1st date!
 
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fishhead202,179148 wrote :

Did you leave a message? Was it his name on the voicemail?





lol at Mia - I get more nervous about the phonecall than from the 1st date!
call me, fishead, I'll help you practice. [img]library/editor/plugins/emotions/img/smiley-cool.gif[/img]
 
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I've found some men do this is you're being cautious and have your number blocked. It may be a control thing or it may be that they just don't want to deal with a telemarketer if that's the call coming in instead of you. I try to assume the best intentions until someone proves otherwise, although I am one of those folks who doesn't give out a number until I've talked with someone (either by e-mail or phone) enough to feel comfortable about it.


I've had guys give me their number and then not pick up. I generally set a specific time. If I do that, and they don't answer, I move on.
 
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I've found some men do this if you're being cautious and have your number blocked. It may be a control thing or it may be that they just don't want to deal with a telemarketer if that's the call coming in instead of you. I try to assume the best intentions until someone proves otherwise, although I am one of those folks who doesn't give out a number until I've talked with someone (either by e-mail or phone) enough to feel comfortable about it.


I've had guys give me their number and then not pick up. I generally set a specific time. If I do that and they don't answer, I move on.
 
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Mia21972,179134 wrote :

ahh the telephone, separates the men from the boys for sure...
hmm, i have experienced the opposite with this...he calls and txts...but is elusive about meeting face to face... [img]library/editor/plugins/emotions/img/smiley-undecided.gif[/img]
 
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