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bohemiangirl is offline bohemiangirl Post #1  July 19,2008, 10:51am
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I had two dates with an eh match recently. He told me up front that he had a foot fetish, which I thought meant that he liked feet. Well, he explained that he liked women to wear sheer stockings. Okay, whatever.


After going to the movies once and the firing range and dinner once, he's asked me to wear sheer stockings and rub my feet on his chest and tickle his nose with my toes and kiss, but no sex. I told him I thought that was a bit much too soon. We haven't even kissed, except for one peck on the second date. He told me that some women feel used after they do this for him and that he thinks they should get a vibrator.


Is it me or does stuff like this usually come up after you're in a relationship (or at least headed that way, which I don't think we are) and not before you even know each other?
 
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yeah, wow, get away from this guy pronto.
 
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dr1619 is offline dr1619 Post #3  July 19,2008, 10:55am
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You closed him, right??
 
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If you dont share his fetish close him. firenrain might like it if you give him to her.[img]library/editor/plugins/emotions/img/smiley-laughing.gif[/img]
 
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Yikes!


+100 what everybody else has said thus far! That's definitely something you save until you're in a relationship. Get away from this guy ASAFP!
 
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OK, thanx. I didn't think I was being a prude, but I just wanted some confirmation. The other thing is, even though we're about the same age, I think he really just doesn't know any better. He seems really young.
 
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ew, gross


the end.
 
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bohemiangirl, wrote :

I had two dates with an eh match recently. He told me up front that he had a foot fetish, which I thought meant that he liked feet. Well, he explained that he liked women to wear sheer stockings. Okay, whatever.


After going to the movies once and the firing range and dinner once, he's asked me to wear sheer stockings and rub my feet on his chest and tickle his nose with my toes and kiss, but no sex. I told him I thought that was a bit much too soon. We haven't even kissed, except for one peck on the second date. He told me that some women feel used after they do this for him and that he thinks they should get a vibrator.


Is it me or does stuff like this usually come up after you're in a relationship (or at least headed that way, which I don't think we are) and not before you even know each other?
That's really creepy and I'd move on as quickly as possible if I were you.
 
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Yikes thats really off the beaten path,,,so early on in the relationship,,,your luckey you found out now instead of two months from now! I love womens feet as well but not like that,,,i don't do that wierd stuff! Don't think i ever will,,thats way to much to get past! Can you please tell me what country are the bohemians from? My mother always said she was a bohunk but i didn't ever know what country is that?? Is it Germany? thanks so much now i'm signing off for good,,All take good care !
 
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