5 Types of Women that Men Avoid

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AirViking is offline AirViking Post #31  July 15,2008, 3:05am
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Well i have to say that it would be wise to avoid the party girl.
 
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Sierpien11,166566 wrote :

Oh please! As long as she has a hot body, men don't care what "type" she is.
I would be one of the first to agree that men's ultimate passion is good sex and a hot body to go with it, but come on now, we are discussing honest relationships, ie - partnerships. At the end of the day, if one is driving the other crazy, it's just not going to a healthy one, thus won't last. No matter the body type.
 
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scorpio,161514 wrote :

Okay, Beetlejuice, I seem to attract Debbie Downers as women friends.And I have family members who attract them as girl friends or wives. The best thing to do is hide when you see them coming - 'cause they will bring you down.


The other one that I would most resent as a friend would be the Clingy #5 that EH mentions. I know a lot of women and men whoare like this. You get tired of them fast because you see them all the time - these types show up everywhere you are.
I used to attract "Debbie Downers" as woman friends as well, but thankfully I finally learned I am a better person when I am not down, which is where they brought me. I recently had the same experience with a male friend. Being around him brought out such negativity in me and I had to cut ties. It's important to be careful everywhere you are, like you said. Thank you for the reminder!
 
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Sierpien11,166566 wrote :

Oh please! As long as she has a hot body, men don't care what "type" she is.
the majority probably do but i close out matches every week that i find attractive but seem like a boring girl or an airhead. 2 of which were DDG! some men use conversation to get sex, some of us want conversation after sex as well.
 
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These are just a few proto types, im glad to know i dont really fall into any category. Thanks for the info. looks down, oh geesh raleigh I hope there is more decent men out there. The good ones cant all be taken. [img]library/editor/plugins/emotions/img/smiley-kiss.gif[/img]
 
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Don't forget the "Succubus" - The "sweet" girl who is not authentic (if you read between the lines) and sucks your energy and money out of you.


And the "Pop Culture Airhead" - The girl who has nothing to say about anything other than American Idol, her dog, and her clothese, and if you are an interesting guy she thinks you're a freak -- which is actually really just a reflection on herself (unable to match up with a real person), but she's not aware of it.
 
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My Personal Favorite:


Drama Queen Daisy


She can usually be found stirring up trouble no matter where she goes. She always has drama going on in her life. No matter what the circumstances! Mostly she wants someone to listen to her drama and make a big deal about how horribly she has been treated by her (a) Ex-husband (b) ex-boyfriend (c) ex-best friend (d) everyone else. She usually has several male friends to run to when she wants to stir up drama with you. She is overly dramatic, making mountains out of mole hills. Usually she tries to keep the drama going in a relationship by doing things to constantly irritate or initiate problems in the relationship. She also likes to pit you against your family because the drama makes her feel special. One aspect of a Drama Queen Daisy is that she will keep several men strung along and fighting over her because it makes her feel special and wanted. She frequently has other male friends call and try to talk sense into you if you decide that you want nothing to do with her and her dramatic ways. She loves jealousy and constantly invents new and dramatic ways to stir up jealousy.


Drama Queen Daisy cannot be taken at her word because the truth is never really known.


Drama Queen Daisy is the blood relative of Narcissitic Nancy. She is usually described by her former lovers/dalliances as "Psycho", "Nut Job", and "Crazy Bi***".
 
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Phew. Good thing I'm perfect














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Benofmen is offline Benofmen Post #39  July 16,2008, 11:15am
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Jeez markschaefare talking about personality types or your ex-girlfriends, lmao.[img]library/editor/plugins/emotions/img/smiley-laughing.gif[/img]
 
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jamesp81,162377 wrote :

I haven't dated many divorcees, but the ones that I tend to run from are the ones who crow the most about how much they took their ex's for. I was talking to a lady, a nice lady, who divorced her husband due to infidelity. All was good and well until she informed me of how proud she was that she cleaned him out. The guy cheated on her, I don't expect her to like him. But the sheer pride and joy she took in how much she took him for was more than a bit off-putting. I ran for the hills and don't regret doing so.
A side note on the divorcee-ex thing:


I find it unappealing when some gal tells me that she and her ex "get along great and are good friends." This has happened to me twice and it has been presented like some "badge of honor" that is supposed to impress me as to how "understanding and over it" they are. I realize that if kids are unfortunately involved (which is never an issue for me becauseI do not date single moms -- widowed, divorced, never-married, PERIOD) a certain basic level of respectful cordiality is necessary to properly co-parent. In the situations (childless former marriages) I am referencing, whatever the reason(s) for the split, I do not want to date someone who is "friends" with their ex.


I am not suggesting that one should be bitter, resentful, vengeful, hurt, or (worse yet) still pining away for them, but rather acceptingly and benevolently apathetic. It is ok for any decent person to "care" about their exas another fellow human being, but that should be about the extent of it.


Rarely is a divorce truly "mutually agreed upon as the best thing on both sides"; usually there is a departing spouse who wants out no matter what and a left-behind spouse who wants to reconcile and restore the R at least initially. With regard to these 2 gals my feelings are this:


If he left you (however he did it and WHATEVER his justifications), he broke his vows and solemn commitment and, after the de facto grieving period, you should just admit your role and forgive him for his. Wish him good luck and happiness in the path he has chosen, cut ties,and just say "goodbye and God bless."


If you left him (again, I don't care how or why), you have broken your vows and are now merely "cake-eating" by actively maintaining a friendship with him...you no longer wanted him as a husband, but you somehow still feel the desire to keep him in your life in some significant platonic capacity.


Either way, it gives me the impression of someone who either is not fully reconciled to letting go completely or someone who didn't take their vows very seriously when the chips were down and is now assuaging or denyingtheirburied guilt by "being friendly."


Red flag...and a big one...for me (NO, is isn't some fearful jealousy thing) and I have one foot out the door after hearing it.
 
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