5 Types of Women that Men Avoid

In a man's mind, I'm wondering if there is a fine line when deciding if a woman is a "cling-on" or not. Take, for example, my situation. I've always worried that a man would get fed up with me, because he would be the one doing all the driving. I would not expect to do everything together. Is there a defined criteria thatevery man expects fromevery woman?Because of an issue with my vision, I would rely on him, everytime we were to go somewhere together.Ialso think that there is a point in a relationship when I should be able to expect that he would not need hisspace and would choose me over hanging out with his friends. What about including me inthose social situations.Am I completely out of luck finding the perfect guy for me,if he knows going in, that this is my situation? I HOPE NOT, I THINK I JUST AS ENTITLED TO FIND A MAN ASANYONE ELSE.

Comments on the "picture thing" (for the 586th time):


Ladies, I know many women have an issue with posting pictures. Many do so belatedly, relunctantly, "strategically", or not at all. I hear all the time that you resist because you "don't want them floating around the internet", "want someone to be interested in me for more than what I look like", and/or (admit it) you are trying to "hide" something--usually weight--that you hope against all possible logic your match somehow won't notice. Please take the following to heart because this is all true (you want to know what guys are thinking, right?)...


1) EH-posted photos CAN NOT be copied or cut & pasted. There is NO danger that someone can "misuse" your pictures and, unless you are posting provocative ones--which EH won't allow anyway, there is nothing to be embarrassed about even if that were the case. You are going to date someone in a public place, so please take reasonable precautions but STOP BEING PARANOID...it is very unappealing.


2) Any decent guy IS "going to become interested in you for who you are on the inside." Here is how "IT" works for men:your "look" catches our eye and makes us want to get to know you better. When we do, and it "clicks", we fall for you and want a real LTR with you. The "player" guy who just wants sex cares about nothing beyond your looks, but, by hiding/delaying your photos, you are likely screening out a lot of good guys because they don't have the opportunity to be "initially intriqued" and/or assume the worst about someone who doesn't show their pics. Yes, we are turned on visually at the outset--it is not a con--it is REAL!


3) The most ridiculous reason of all! He is going to see you eventually and delaying the inevitable is NOT going to change the result of that one way or the other. In other words, a man is not going to become so enthralled with you in GC/OC that hefails to noticean "unattractive physical package" (to him) on a blind 1st date. Whatever you look like, it is best to be upfront and honest about it from the get-go; the guys who are aren't visually interested, won't pursue you (or waste his/your time in the process) and guys who are, will. Why not just dispense with that whole necessary issue up front (as much as photos allow)?


There is absolutely no point in not posting pics or posting only "strategic" ones (i.e. face-shots only, hidden body, loose clothing, etc.) We can usually tell by the size of your upper arm, the shape of the face/neck, and the fact that the rest of you is "unseen" what is likely going on--we are not fooled! And what, pray tell, would be the benefit of fooling us anyway? A 1st (and only) date that is going absolutely nowhere?


Virtually every woman writes that they want "honesty" in a partner. This is honesty and it is quite dishonest to pretend or fake or hide what you really are or are not. In "real life" nobody walks around covered head-to-toeby some generic computer-generated silhouette or "strategically camouflaged." OL dating is difficult and frustrating enough without these sort of wasteful games going on.


Food for thought...NO FLAMES!

One more comment on photos, the same applies to men. 90% of my matches have NO photo at all. The rest have one, sometimes two, many are from a distance and you can not see features. I am not "all about looks" but I want to SEE who I am corresponding with. I have requested numerous photos, but most guys never reply and the match gets closed out.