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myusernamehere is online now myusernamehere Post #21  February 5,2012, 12:53pm
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Gr8Guyn2008 wrote :
If I have this right you were matched with guy #1 over a month ago and because of his schedule you were not able coordinate a first date. I firmly believe that you make time for what is important to you. In this case you were not very important to this guy and he lost out to someone to whom you were important to. It is kind of you snooze you loose.
It sounds like it wasn't just his schedule but her's also.

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We made plans to meet up but he was out of town with work for a
Couple of weeks and because of schedules etc. we weren't able to find a
Time to meet until this coming week.
 
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Holiday_HH wrote :
And I'm not sure if that was you intention but he should ignore me, meaning I'm the bad guy? That confuses me a little...
I mean that there's no point in maintaining contact with someone that isn't interested. (And definitely no point in sending angry texts) The best thing is to cut losses and move on.

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Ignoring his text messages is the way to go. You can also report his phone number to the police for harassment if it continues.
 
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