Should I continue to pursue this guy?


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Emmyjoy is offline Emmyjoy Post #11  February 4,2012, 12:14pm
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When a man is truly interested in you, he will stop at nothing to talk to you and to see you. If he is not initiating any contact and not making plans to see you, he is not into you.

It sounds like he was never really into you but just sorta kept you on the back burner. You became his back-up girl. Just forget that chump and move on.
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ami1uwant is offline ami1uwant Post #12  February 4,2012, 8:27pm
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That "maybe" comment you said hurt.

Its hard to say if he was just looking for a one night stand or was actually hurt that you said that "maybe" and you didnt sleep with him that night.

The other weird thing in this is how he waited for you to call him to set up a date.

BTW---to me...going to a bar for drinks isnt a date.
 
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KikiAZ is offline KikiAZ Post #13  February 6,2012, 11:33am
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The best way to know a guy is interested in a relationship with you is he initiates contact with you, asks you out, and tries to win you over. Hanging out and hooking up is not a relationship. Sounds like he is happy to accomodate you, if you do all the work and don't expect much.

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